Boston-based Billy Flynn Gadbois has two young sons with his ex-wife. Though Gadbois and his ex-wife had gone their separate ways, he still made it a point to organize a birthday surprise for her. On her special day, he woke up early, made breakfast together with their sons, and surprised her with flowers, a gift, and birthday cards.
His friends asked him why he was willing to go to such lengths for her… His response demonstrated a level of maturity that may be difficult to fathom in today’s day and age.
Gadbois, a lawyer and model, takes parenting seriously. When he separated from the mother of his children, he thought about the example he wanted to set for his two sons. He went out all the way to do what any family would for the lady of the house.
“I’m raising two little men,” he explained. “The example I set for how I treat their mom is going to significantly shape how they see and treat women and affect their perception of relationships. I think even more so in my case because we are divorced.”
Gadbois strongly believes that this was the right thing to do and that it will have far-reaching positive consequences in the long term.
In a world where divorce rates are so high, the examples that Billy sets by his behavior are exemplary and inspiring.
Gadbois’s post went massively viral, racking up more than 219,000 reactions and over 219,000 shares. The dad’s message struck a chord with many social media users.
Not all netizens were of the same mind as Gadbois though.
Having handled many nasty divorce battles, Kleyman has witnessed “the collateral damage done by divorcing spouses to their children.” Hence, he advised: “Not every parent needs to go as far as Mr. Gadbois has gone and greet their ex with breakfast and flowers, but keeping peace, understanding your role as a parent and raising your kids separately but cooperatively should be the goal of every parent.”