‘It Ends With Us’: Domestic Abuse Film Has Romcom Vibe

Blake Lively is lovely in ‘It Ends With Us,’ but this domestic abuse film needed less ‘Sweet Home Alabama’ and more black eyes and bloody noses.
‘It Ends With Us’: Domestic Abuse Film Has Romcom Vibe
Lily Bloom (Blake Lively) meets a stranger on her rooftop in "It Ends With Us." Jojo Whilden/Columbia Pictures/Sony Pictures Releasing
Mark Jackson
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PG-13 | 2h 10m | Drama, Melodrama, Romance | August 9, 2024

“It Ends With Us” should have been a grittier, poignant accounting of domestic abuse and intergenerational trauma, but suffers from a Hallmark treatment. It’s mostly engrossing though.

Lead actor Justin Baldoni doubles as director, and his co-star, the luminous Blake Lively, playing lead character Lily Bloom, would appear to be nowhere near plateauing in her long-lived and long-legged loveliness, career and otherwise.

Ryle Kincaid (Justin Baldoni) is a tall, dark, handsome neurosurgeon with splendid abs, in "It Ends With Us." (Jojo Whilden/Columbia Pictures/Sony Pictures Releasing)
Ryle Kincaid (Justin Baldoni) is a tall, dark, handsome neurosurgeon with splendid abs, in "It Ends With Us." Jojo Whilden/Columbia Pictures/Sony Pictures Releasing
The main problem: Baldoni’s character, Ryle Kincaid, boasts at one point, “I’m a ripped neurosurgeon.” And indeed, he is. This was possibly too much awesomeness for one man to handle, and while Baldoni admirably nailed a lot of it, this hugely popular Colleen Hoover novel of the same name, adapted to the screen, is a little too lightweight, breezy, and romcom-y.
Lily Bloom (Blake Lively) in her new flower shop, in "It Ends With Us." (Jojo Whilden/Columbia Pictures/Sony Pictures Releasing)
Lily Bloom (Blake Lively) in her new flower shop, in "It Ends With Us." Jojo Whilden/Columbia Pictures/Sony Pictures Releasing

Meet-Awkward

One night, shop owner Lily and surgeon Ryle meet awkwardly on the rooftop of the apartment building they both live in. He, being the aggressive and ripped neurosurgeon that he is, almost sweeps her off her feet right there on the rooftop. But, since he’s on call, he has to go back to work. But a blink-and-you'll-miss-it red flag has been revealed.
Lily Bloom (Blake Lively) meets a stranger on her rooftop, in "It Ends With Us." (Jojo Whilden/Columbia Pictures/Sony Pictures Releasing)
Lily Bloom (Blake Lively) meets a stranger on her rooftop, in "It Ends With Us." Jojo Whilden/Columbia Pictures/Sony Pictures Releasing

Their romance, er, blossoms, along with Lily’s blooming flower shop (Lily’s only recently arrived in Boston). I keep wanting to say, “And just like that” because the whole thing has a strong “Sex In The City” vibe. And just like that, Lily’s got a brand-new bestie, Allysa (Jenny Slate) whom she hires on the spot. Turns out, Allysa knows people Lily knows.

Allysa (Jenny Slate) and Lily (Blake Lively) fill a flower order, in "It Ends With Us." (Jojo Whilden/Columbia Pictures/Sony Pictures Releasing)
Allysa (Jenny Slate) and Lily (Blake Lively) fill a flower order, in "It Ends With Us." Jojo Whilden/Columbia Pictures/Sony Pictures Releasing

Flashbacks

We toggle between Lily-now and Lily-then, and find that Lily’s got some violent skeletons in her closet, but they don’t haunt anyone but her. Teenage Lily (Isabela Ferrer, who’s a dead ringer for Lively, especially when she smiles) helps out a school busmate named Atlas Corrigan (Alex Neustaedter), whom she spies squatting in a boarded-up building across the street from her home.

Atlas’s mother kicked him out due to the fact that all of her boyfriends beat her senseless, and he tends to intervene. Lily gives Atlas her dad’s clothes, some food, and when Lily’s dad eventually finds out about Atlas, things do not end well. And off goes Atlas to the Marines for at least eight years.

Lily (Blake Lively) and Ryle (Justin Baldoni) almost get themselves in trouble the minute they meet, in "It Ends With Us." (Jojo Whilden/Columbia Pictures/Sony Pictures Releasing)
Lily (Blake Lively) and Ryle (Justin Baldoni) almost get themselves in trouble the minute they meet, in "It Ends With Us." Jojo Whilden/Columbia Pictures/Sony Pictures Releasing

Back to the future: Abusive behaviors and patterns start to surface between the comely shop owner and the ripped surgeon. One night, dining at a cozy upscale restaurant, who should reappear in her life, to take her dinner order—than Lily’s first love. Atlas (older version played by Brandon Sklenar) simultaneously observes a small cut below Lily’s eye, and bandaged knuckles on Lily’s new boyfriend’s right hand. Do you imagine there will be fisticuffs?

Lily (Blake Lively) and Atlas (Brandon Sklenar) meet again, in "It Ends With Us." (Jojo Whilden/Columbia Pictures/Sony Pictures Releasing)
Lily (Blake Lively) and Atlas (Brandon Sklenar) meet again, in "It Ends With Us." Jojo Whilden/Columbia Pictures/Sony Pictures Releasing

What’s Missing

As you can surmise, there’s kicking, punching, throttling, and shoving people down staircases happening every which way around here, but we only glimpse a tiny fraction of it. “It Ends With Us” has too much flower shop prattle, Lily’s fussing mom (Amy Morton), fun with karaoke, many beer toasts, cooing over baby bumps, and not enough black eyes, bloody noses, and fingerprints on necks.

Lively digs deep but isn’t given much to work with; her trauma is so minimal, it doesn’t allow Lively to register much more than mild bewilderment. Which is a shame, because Lively commands a wide range of acting skills and portrays pain extremely well—just take a gander at her dealing with great white shark abuse in “The Shallows.”

Lily (Blake Lively) and Ryle (Justin Baldoni) do karaoke, in "It Ends With Us." (Jojo Whilden/Columbia Pictures/Sony Pictures Releasing)
Lily (Blake Lively) and Ryle (Justin Baldoni) do karaoke, in "It Ends With Us." Jojo Whilden/Columbia Pictures/Sony Pictures Releasing

One Among Many

A quick Google search turns up 23 movies about domestic violence, such as “Enough” (2002), “What’s Love Got to Do With It” (1993), “The Color Purple” (1985), “The Burning Bed” (1984), “Fried Green Tomatoes” (1991), “Sleeping With the Enemy” (1991), and “I, Tonya” (2017). Do we really need another one? Of course—the problem is not going away any time soon.
Lily (Blake Lively) tells Ryle (Justin Baldoni) that she's not interested in her ex-boyfriend, in "It Ends With Us." (Jojo Whilden/Columbia Pictures/Sony Pictures Releasing)
Lily (Blake Lively) tells Ryle (Justin Baldoni) that she's not interested in her ex-boyfriend, in "It Ends With Us." Jojo Whilden/Columbia Pictures/Sony Pictures Releasing
“It Ends With Us” is mostly engaging. Hopefully, both the film and the book will raise awareness. According to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence: “An average of 24 people per minute are victims of rape, physical violence or stalking by an intimate partner in the United States—more than 12 million women and men over the course of a single year.”
The Domestic Violence Hotline number: 800-799-7233. Or text [START] to 88788.
Promotional poster for "It Ends With Us." (Columbia Pictures/Sony Pictures Releasing)
Promotional poster for "It Ends With Us." Columbia Pictures/Sony Pictures Releasing
‘It Ends With Us’ Director: Justin Baldoni Starring: Blake Lively, Justin Baldoni, Isabela Ferrer, Alex Neustaedter, Brandon Sklenar, Jenny Slate, Amy Morton MPAA Rating: PG-13 Running Time: 2 hours, 10 minutes Release Date: Aug. 9, 2024 Rating: 3 1/2 stars out of 5
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Mark Jackson
Mark Jackson
Film Critic
Mark Jackson is the chief film critic for The Epoch Times. In addition to the world’s number-one storytelling vehicle—film, he enjoys martial arts, weightlifting, motorcycles, vision questing, rock-climbing, qigong, oil painting, and human rights activism. Jackson earned a bachelor's degree in philosophy from Williams College, followed by a classical theater training, and has 20 years’ experience as a New York professional actor, working in theater, commercials, and television daytime dramas. He narrated The Epoch Times audiobook “How the Specter of Communism is Ruling Our World,” which is available on iTunes and Audible. Jackson is a Rotten Tomatoes-approved film critic.