A treehouse can be built so it is around a tree trunk without actually being attached to the tree. The weight of the house doesn’t have to be entirely supported by the tree. Support posts can be used to prop up portions of the house or even the whole structure.
A more serious problem to look out for are power lines, not just the ones running down the back yards but also the one to the house. The treehouse would need to be built carefully so that the power line is out of reach of the house itself and the occupants.
If the tree is not pruned while it’s young, large branches will have to be cut off, which will not be attractive for many years to come, and it can be unhealthy for the tree. These five-inch diameter branches should probably have been pruned off when they were only two inches in diameter. The tree would have already healed the cut by now.
After planting in your yard, an oak (and most other shade trees) should be looked at and probably pruned yearly for the first five years. After that, they should probably be pruned once every five years until they are 30 to 50 years old. The mature tree will be able to go many years without pruning.
Oaks and live oaks, in particular, shouldn’t be pruned during the growing season if possible. They can get a disease call oak wilt. It is a fungal disease spread by beetles and root grafts with infected trees.
The beetles spread the disease from red oaks to live oaks. The live oaks don’t produce the type of fungal growth necessary for the beetle to spread the disease, but once it is in the live oak tree, it is fatal.
The beetles feed on sap that comes from open wounds. If the sap is infected with the oak wilt fungus, the beetles can spread the disease. Pruning should be done when the insect is not available to spread the disease, which is normally the wintertime.