‘We All Live Here’: The Comedy in Catastrophe

Jojo Moyes’s latest novel is a charming, humorous story about the collapse of a woman’s life and the chaotic relationships she endures under her roof.
‘We All Live Here’: The Comedy in Catastrophe
Jojo Moyes's new novel demonstrates how a blended family can survive—anything.
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From the first few pages, you can tell that Jojo Moyes is a writer who knows what she’s doing. Coming across such writers (new or well-established ones) is a real treat—someone who gleans where the story needs to begin and then lets the natural rhythm of it take readers where it needs to go. Her latest novel is exactly that kind of novel.

“We All Live Here” is a delightful slice of disaster. It’s a humorously entertaining and relatable story about what happens when life hands you a catastrophe, then follows it up with several more for good measure.

The book is about a 42-year-old writer named Lila Kennedy, whose life has come apart at the seams at a time when it should be at its best. She, her husband, and their two daughters had almost settled into their new North London home, and Lila had just released a bestselling book about how to make a marriage last like her own supposedly rock-solid one. Two weeks after the launch, however, her husband, Dan, announces he’d been hiding an affair with a younger woman in the neighborhood and that he’s leaving her.

His betrayal and the destruction of their relationship catch Lila completely off guard, and she must come to terms with the fact that everything in her book is a lie, and she has no idea what a strong marriage even looks like. Plus, everyone around her now knows it, too.

Needless to say, this is not a good time for her mother to die in a traffic accident, but that’s exactly what happens next.

The Mixed Blessings of Family

“We All Live Here” begins as these events come to pass. Lila is left standing in the aftermath, trying to cope with it all. But fate isn’t finished toying with her.

When she goes to pick up her 8-year-old daughter, Violet, after school, she must endure the other mothers huddling around in groups nearby, whispering and giggling at her very public misfortune. “The other woman,” Marja, also happens to be a mother whose child is at the same school, so Lila gets to see her almost every weekday.

She also has a front-row seat to the squealing, delighted cries of the other mothers as they learn that Marja is newly pregnant by Dan.

At home, things are not going well either. Lila’s upstairs bathroom is threatening to take the entire plumbing system out for good. She’s lying to her literary agent, promising to deliver the first chapters of her new manuscript in three weeks when, in fact, she hasn’t written a word and can’t seem to find any worth putting down.

Ripple Effects

Her kids are dealing with the divorce and the death of their grandmother in different ways. Violet has learned the joys of making adults uncomfortable by blurting out details about anything gross she can think of. Her 16-year-old, Celie, who was already reticent and withdrawn, has begun smoking pot and drinking alcohol. The fights between her and Lila only push them further apart.

Lila’s stepfather, Bill, has moved in “temporarily” to help out, but doesn’t show any signs of leaving. Bill is both a welcome presence in Lila’s life and a trying one. While growing up, Lila appreciated his fastidious ways and the stabilizing effect he had on her childhood after her actor father abandoned her and ran off to Hollywood.

But as an adult, she finds Bill’s constant tidying tedious and a reminder of her own failures. And at the same time, she knows he is trying to deal with his own grief at the loss of his wife.

And before you can say, “How could it get worse?” her deadbeat father, Gene, shows up unexpectedly after 15 years of total silence and manages to weasel his way into staying with them all under the same roof.

Charm in a Whirlwind of Disaster

Did I mention this was a humorous story? I don’t blame you if you forgot that part. When you break down the details of Lila’s life, all this might come across as a modern-day Greek tragedy rather than a charming slice-of-life tale about weathering the storms of personal disasters.

But Moyes’s storytelling abilities allow Lila and her family to stumble awkwardly, humanly, even nobly, through each new trial that falls on their doorstep and allows readers to cringe and laugh over each moment. It’s a kind of “schadenfreude,” yes, a chance for readers to murmur to Lila, “You poor thing,” and yet hurry to see what might happen next.

With “We All Live Here,” Moyes has grasped that great entertainment can be found by watching someone traverse a knife-edge of life, always in danger of falling into the void of utter destruction. It’s well worth your reading pleasure.

How many things can go wrong all at once? How far can you count?
How many things can go wrong all at once? How far can you count?
We All Live Here By Jojo Moyes Pamela Dorman Books, Feb. 11, 2025 Hardcover: 464 pages
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Adam H. Douglas is an award-winning full-time freelance writer and author of over 20 years. His work has appeared internationally in publications, including Forbes, Business Insider, MyPerfectMortgage, and many more. His creative works tend toward speculative fiction and horror fantasy. He lives in beautiful Prince Edward Isand, Canada with his wife of 30 years and his dogs and kitties.