‘The Knitted Collar’: Virtue in Sickness and in Health

Mary Anne Hoare’s short story of a little girl who makes a tough choice inspires us all to do the same.
‘The Knitted Collar’: Virtue in Sickness and in Health
"The Lacemaker," circa 1665, by Bernhard Keil. Metropolitan Museum of Art. A girl strives to provide for her impoverished family by selling a knitted collar. Public Domain
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Cold and hunger are hardly catalysts for kindness, let alone virtue. Yet, in her short story “The Knitted Collar,” Mary Anne Hoare showed a young girl who, though struggling to keep herself and her family alive, upholds dignity and virtue. Beneath her thin body and ragged clothes shines a truly remarkable spirit.

Cold and Hunger

"An Irish Peasant Family Discovering the Blight of Their Store," circa 1847, by Cork artist Daniel MacDonald. (Public Domain)
"An Irish Peasant Family Discovering the Blight of Their Store," circa 1847, by Cork artist Daniel MacDonald. Public Domain

Mary Sullivan sits in a poor attic with the rest of her family, watching as her father lies on his death bed. Her father squandered the family’s money on drink. With the arrival of the 1846 famine in Ireland, the family has no money and no food. Along with her father dying, the rest of Mary’s family is too young, hungry, or tired to work.

Seeing her family’s distress, 14-year-old Mary turns to her mother and offers to go sell the collar that she knitted. Her mother assents, but sorrowfully exclaims that Mary is also weak and hardly fit to work or walk.

Not waiting any longer, Mary quickly finishes knitting the collar and heads out into the streets. Fortunately, she runs into a wealthy woman walking along.

Holding out the collar, she asks the woman if she would like to buy it for two shillings. The woman responds that she will buy it for one shilling and one shilling only. Desperate for any money, Mary accepts the shilling and hurries on her way.

She makes her way to a bakery with her newly earned shilling. Inside the bakery, the baker and his assistants bustle around, trying to fulfill all of the orders.

Virtue in Sickness and in Health

One of the young assistants brings Mary the stale bread that she bought and hands her the change. Mary walks away from the counter, but soon returns asking him how much the loaf was. The boy responds, “Threepence, and I gave you the change.”

Mary returns the money and assures him that he gave her too much change. The boy takes the money, quickly rectifies his mistake, and sends her on her way.

Yet Mary’s honesty doesn’t go unnoticed, for a woman watches as she returns the extra change. Seeing such virtue and honesty in spite of hardship, the woman steps forward and says, “Good principle may be shown as well about a penny as a pound—here is a shilling for you.” Mary takes the shilling with utter astonishment and gratitude and hurries out of the shop.

"Giving Alms to Beggar Children," painting in the manner of Francis Wheatley. (Public Domain)
"Giving Alms to Beggar Children," painting in the manner of Francis Wheatley. Public Domain

With her newly earned treasures, Mary is able to feed her family, but only for a little while. She must soon head back out to earn more money, yet not without touching and inspiring those she interacts with.

Through this story, Hoare praised honesty and virtue in both sickness and heath, for they inspire and touch more than just a few people. Like ripples in a pond, they spread out farther and farther, until their effects touch everyone around them.

Hoare emphasized that honesty and virtue are choices. Just as Roy T. Bennett says in “The Light in the Heart,” “Optimism is a choice. Kindness is a choice. Giving is a choice. Respect is a choice. Whatever choice you make makes you. Choose wisely.”

Because Mary chooses honesty, kindness, and virtue in her hardships, her choices make her brave spirit shine brilliantly in her dark and dismal situation.

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Kate Vidimos
Kate Vidimos
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Kate Vidimos is a 2020 graduate from the liberal arts college at the University of Dallas, where she received her bachelor’s degree in English. She plans on pursuing all forms of storytelling (specifically film) and is currently working on finishing and illustrating a children’s book.