Moving into a new neighborhood or apartment building is the adult version of being the new kid in school. With that in mind, here are several suggestions to help make the new folks feel welcome.
Big Smiles
It’s not unusual for new neighbors to be shy or a bit standoffish, so be friendly by giving them a wave and a smile when you see them walking or driving by. If you notice they have the same type of car or the same breed of dog as you do, or perhaps you both have a boat or an RV, use that to strike up a conversation the next time you see them.Come on Over
If you are hosting a backyard barbeque or a driveway movie night, make sure to invite the new neighbors. This is particularly important if their home is next to yours, as they’ll be sure to see and hear the party, and might feel slighted if they were not invited. Even if the new neighbors politely decline the invitation, you’ve broken the ice by extending it.Respect Boundaries
Curiosity is no excuse for being rude, such as by peeking over the new neighbor’s fence or looking inside their home if the curtains are open. On a similar note, if you are walking past their home or they live next door to you, be careful not to accidentally, or worse, on purpose, listen in on their conversations. Keep your dog and children off their lawn, even if the previous neighbors had allowed this.It’s Child’s Play
Children are a great icebreaker; it’s natural that if they see the new neighbors have children of a similar age, or perhaps realize they all attend the same school, they’ll want to meet them. Tag along as they approach to introduce themselves to the other children, and make a point of introducing yourself to their parents if you see them. If your kids have a pool or birthday party, have them invite the new neighbors.Be Helpful
If you happen to notice the new neighbor’s dog running loose or you see their child fall off a bicycle, let them know right away. It can be reassuring for them to know you and the other neighbors keep an eye out for each other without being overbearing. If you notice the new neighbor struggling with a big project such as trimming a tree, an offer of assistance is a thoughtful, welcoming gesture.
