We can’t choose our neighbors, but we can choose to be friendly, considerate, respectful, and generally the kind of person we want to live next door or down the block from us.
Smile and Wave
Being friendly and acknowledging those living near you can be infectious—if you do it, chances are they will, too. It’s common for neighbors to not know each other, but the benefits of reaching out first greatly outweigh the minimal effort required. Walking the dog—or with your kids—is a great way to meet them and chat. You may find you have a lot in common and make a new friend. Also, if you see them at the grocery store, smile and say “hi.”Set a Good Example
Think about what behavior might irritate you, and then make sure you aren’t guilty of it. The list probably includes making too much noise too early or too late at night, such as mowing the lawn, using a chainsaw to trim trees, or hosting a party that gets a bit loud after the sun goes down. Other “don’t dos” include leaving lawnmowers or other unsightly items in the driveway all week, allowing dogs to bark all day or all night, or flying a drone over backyards.Be Respectful
Don’t sneak trash into a neighbor’s trash cans or pile yard debris on their property. If your dog relieves itself on the lawn next door or down the block, clean it up immediately. On a similar note, teach your kids to stay in their yard and to ask permission before retrieving a stray ball or Frisbee from someone else’s property. If you host a backyard barbeque for your “more boisterous” friends, your neighbors on both sides and behind you are less likely to complain if you invite them to attend.Be Helpful
Being neighborly means being ready to lend a helping hand to a neighbor in need. For example, if you see them working on a project, such as building a deck, and you are handy with a hammer, ask if they need a hand but don’t be offended if they decline assistance—the point is to make a friendly gesture. Be careful to not come across as a know-it-all; don’t assume that they don’t know how to mow their lawn, paint their house, or start a garden.Keep Your Home Looking Great
Keeping the lawn and trees neatly trimmed shows pride in your home, maintains its value, and contributes to the overall beauty of the neighborhood. But take it a step further by walking across the street from your house to see the view of those living near you. Does it need a fresh coat of paint? Or, perhaps it’s time to pressure-wash the sidewalk? Are there loose or missing shingles on the roof? Is there an oil stain on the driveway? Make a list and get busy!
