If you decide to give a holiday tip, remember that it’s optional, so don’t give more than is appropriate, and keep in mind that there are other ways than a gift of cash to say “thank you.”
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There’s a fine line between being on a budget and being a Scrooge. The fear of seeming cheap often makes people give more than they can afford. You don’t need to give everyone you come into contact with a tip, so stick with those who did the most for you. Keep it inexpensive, but thoughtful; a $10 gift card that can be used anywhere along with a handwritten “thank you” note is one gift that works for everyone.Cash Alternatives
If you’re a great baker or a top-notch gardener, consider a homemade gift such as a small basket of cookies or muffins or maybe an exotic herb in a small pot. One cosmetics executive puts a “take one” basket of full-sized samples on her front porch during the holidays for her mailman and delivery persons, who normally aren’t allowed to accept gratuities. It’s the thought that counts, and you’re letting these important folks know they’re very much appreciated.Personal Service Providers
The rule of thumb for barbers, hair stylists, babysitters, dog walkers, nail technicians, personal trainers, and others whom you see on a regular basis is to gift the equivalent of one service. It may seem like you’re tipping just about everyone in your life, but there’s one group whom you do not tip: teachers. It might appear to be an attempt to curry preferred treatment. However, it’s OK for your child to give his or her favorite teacher a book or a small potted plant.Day In, Day Out Workers
Mail carriers aren’t allowed to accept gifts worth more than $20 and no cash at all. The rule of thumb for trash crews and lawn service persons is cash or a gift card in the amount of $25 to $50, while building superintendents or doormen are typically gifted between $25 and $150, depending on how luxurious the property may be. If this is adding up way too fast, consider getting a large gift basket for the lawn or building crew to share.At the Office
It’s important to let your assistants and subordinates feel appreciated for their hard work and all the times they saved the day. But check with HR before giving gifts to make sure there isn’t a company policy prohibiting this. Taking the team out for lunch is a fun way to let them know you value their efforts. Otherwise, consider small gifts in the $10 to $15 range, such as gift cards, picture frames, or fun desk accessories.
