A “pregnancy reveal” often requires the excited mom-to-be to subdue the urge to shout from the rooftops until the perfect moment. But for Jessica Egan, from Salt Lake City, Utah, the urge to shout was non-existent. She was afraid to make the announcement at all.
Jessica had witnessed a continuous line of overjoyed colleagues announce their pregnancies—three were even having twins—but Jessica had received some news about her own pregnancy that burst her bubble of joy.
Jessica deeply feared that her baby wouldn’t be accepted or celebrated as her colleagues’ had been. “I spent the next three days at home in tears, afraid to tell anyone the news,” she recalled.
The conscientious couple, after speaking to the foundation, found that their fears were assuaged. “We began to realize that Down syndrome was nothing to fear,” Jessica said. “When our baby [Gwendolyn] was born, we were overwhelmed with love for her.”
“They called me shortly after my order was in production,” Jessica continued, “and said ‘Great news, we went ahead and upgraded you to extra chromosomes for free! You’ll receive the extra chromosomes with your completed order in 9 months.’” She went on to express comically exaggerated indignation over her unborn baby’s extra chromosome but eventually concluded that the “upgrade” was acceptable: “I decided that receiving my order with extra chromosomes was better than not receiving an order at all, so I settled in to wait for this surprise upgrade to arrive.”
Jessica shared how much she adores her baby daughter and encouraged other prospective parents to “upgrade to extra chromosomes” if the opportunity arose—her way of saying, without a shadow of a doubt, that neither she nor her husband harbor any residual fears. Baby Gwendolyn is perfect.
“I posted some photos below of the finished product,” the witty mom concluded, “and you can see the extra chromosome is so worth it ... Would purchase again for sure.”
Mamamia reported that Jessica’s post was initially posted for family and friends, but her witty words have gone viral, being shared a whopping 74,000 times since they were posted. And Jessica’s feedback has been overwhelmingly supportive. “I hope people find comfort from my post,” she added, “but I also hope that people who have no experience with Down syndrome or other chromosomal abnormalities will have their minds and hearts opened.”
Jessica shared a dream she'd had about Gwendolyn’s future: “our little girl was grown up and she was working in a trendy decor store, and was also a talented chef,” Jessica shared. “My hope is that there will be no limit to what she can become.”
With the love and acceptance of family, friends, and society at large, the sky’s the limit for Gwendolyn.