Most of us believe we have good manners, but sometimes, we may inadvertently slip a bit. The following are things that many do without realizing they’re breaking etiquette laws.
Hold That Call
Continuing a phone call as you board and then ride an elevator, while you’re at the checkout register of a store, or while a waiter is taking your order sends a signal to those around you that they aren’t worthy of your attention or consideration. The only thing worse is making a call during any of these scenarios. End the call with a promise to call back as soon as possible.Hands Down
Frantically waving a hand to flag down a waiter goes right past rude into arrogant behavior. If you find yourself dining at a restaurant at a time when there are many patrons and not enough wait staff, find the manager and discuss the situation or simply be patient and understanding—these things happen. Resist the urge to make a scene by waving at or yelling at a waiter, especially one serving diners at another table.Smile
One of the most common examples of bad manners involves folks who resist any normal interaction with others, be they co-workers or strangers. A friendly smile is a great icebreaker when meeting someone for the first time and a warm way to greet friends and co-workers. Eye contact is an effective way to make others feel comfortable; people who refuse to make eye contact are often seen as rude, even if it’s actually shyness.Napkins Matter
It’s common to see many diners neglecting to use a napkin at restaurants or during dinner parties. To help avoid stained clothing, place the napkin in your lap when you take your seat, use it as needed during the meal, and then place it on the table at the end of the meal. If you absolutely must use it to muffle a sneeze, discreetly request a new napkin from the server.Make Introductions
When bringing someone new to a business event, work-related meal, or when meeting friends after work, make a point to introduce him or her to the others instead of ignoring the fact that they don’t know anyone there. This helps the new person relax and feel comfortable in unfamiliar surroundings, while also sending a subliminal message to others that you respect your associate and expect them to be treated well.
