Curtis Tarpley, 79, and his wife, Betty, 80, passed away at the Texas Health Harris Methodist Hospital in Fort Worth on June 18. Betty was admitted to hospital shortly before her husband.
The worried son drove his mother to the hospital. The 80-year-old tested positive for the CCP virus, commonly known as the novel coronavirus, on June 9, and her condition deteriorated quickly.
Just days after Betty’s hospital admission, Curtis, who had underlying health conditions, also tested positive. “They both kind of knew if they got this, if it was brought into the house, that my dad would not be able to survive this,” Tim reflected.
According to her son, it was Betty who first became cognizant that her fight was almost over.
Tim called his father, who was being treated on a different floor of the hospital, to break the news. “He said, ‘How’s your mom?’” Tim recalled. “I said, ‘Not good,’ ... and it was like, at that moment knowing that my mom was going to go, it was okay for him to go.”
A medical staffer came forward with the suggestion that the couple be relocated to the same room. “It was some doctor or nurse named Blake,” said Tim, “that’s all we knew about him. He really went out of his way to get my mom moved from her room to his room.”
The Tarpleys’ medical team placed Curtis and Betty side by side and laid their hands close together. “[N]ext thing we know,” said Tim, “they grabbed each other’s hands. And that’s how they went.”
The grieving son has since expressed immense gratitude to Curtis and Betty’s team, as well as all medics working on the front lines during such a challenging time, calling them “unseen heroes.”
Curtis and Betty attended the same high school in Rockford, Illinois, even working at the same ice cream shop. Somehow, the two met each other in San Diego again, and they dated each other, married, and had their two children, Tim and Tricia, before relocating to Texas in the 1980s.
“A friend of mine ... I guess he was homeless and living in his car, and my mom would let him shower and sleep on the couch and she would make him food to eat in the car,” Tim explained, recalling one anecdote. “I had no idea.”
Curtis and Betty also gave back in their final moments; their bodies, said Tim’s sister, Tricia, are being donated to the University of North Texas Health Science Center for medical research.
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