A Memoir of Growing Up in Communist Romania

Opera singer Maria-Cristina Necula found her voice in more than one artistic endeavor.
A Memoir of Growing Up in Communist Romania
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She remembers the exact day she decided to become an opera singer. Born in Romania and raised in the communist state’s “cosmos of oppression,” Maria-Cristina Necula found one bright light during that time: attending opera performances with her mother.

Her father, a respected professor of electronics and telecommunications at the Polytechnic University, had already made the decision to defect and was working behind the scenes to reunite the family in the United States. Despite their family’s grim predicament, Necula found the one thing to give her a goal, and a sense of hope and optimism.

An Aspiration Is Ignited

“The 15th of May 1985,” she writes in her memoir, “The Voice Beneath the Quince Tree,” “We were going to the opera.”  Her mother, a professor herself and an opera fan, took 10-year-old Necula to see “The Marriage of Figaro” at the Bucharest National Opera House. She recalls the arrival at the light-gray building, its architecture, the marble floor, the arches and carpeted staircase. Three years earlier she’d watched opera on the family TV and ran from the room laughing from sounds that to her were like “screaming beyond the edge of screaming.” Now she was enraptured by this new world. She felt like a grown-up in an audience of adults. As the opera played on, Necula “sat on the edge of [her] seat, mouth open, and shaping the sounds [she] heard from the stage.” On the trolley bus home, she exclaimed, “I’m gonna be an opera singer.”

What had been a relatively quiet but restricted life under the rule of dictator Nicolae Ceausescu, theirs had still been a comfortable existence. That was until Necula’s father Nicolae defected. He had made regular trips to the West, accompanied by government agents to meet with other educators and experts in an exchange of information and collaboration. But this time, while in London and with government agents in the next room, he slipped out, walked to a quiet location, and set his plan in motion: to get to Austria and get his family out of Romania.

This act not only put Nicolae’s own life at risk, but also made family and friends targets of the Romanian Securitate, the secret police.

Grim Life Under Communist Rule

Maria-Cristina Necula’s story is rich in observations of everyday life in a communist state, working diligently in grade school to avoid “cruel punishments for failing grades,” and finding beauty and melodies in operas like “La Traviata” and “Cyrano de Bergerac.” It’s an inspiring story of faith and endurance, a window into a historic time, and a suspense-filled tale of finding freedom.

During Necula’s life in Romania, she  had access to limited books, movies, and TV. Their main channel, she wrote, “showed only a few hours of programming every night, mostly filled with communist propaganda.”

In one chilling experience, she remembers standing on a parade route for three hours to celebrate May Day, the anniversary of the founding of the Romanian communist party. Just a few days before, the Chernobyl plant had exploded, sending radioactive particles over her country. It wasn’t until days later that the local newspaper reported “radiation levels significantly surpassed normal limits,” and advised that children avoid being outside for too long.

Readers will sense the author’s positivity despite the chaos around her. With her father’s defection came regular interrogations endured by her mother, confiscations of their home furniture, and invasions of their privacy. On one occasion, she heard the clang of metallic garbage cans as government agents sifted through their trash.

“Loving and missing my father,” Necula writes, “meant living under a microscope.” She had to stop worrying that her simple letters to her father’s P.O. Box would be analyzed for hidden messages.

Permission to Leave

After much red tape, pressure from a U.S. Congressman, and bribing a Romanian doctor with “several coffee bags and cigarette cartons acquired on the black market,” the two women were given clearance to leave Romania. Just as Necula described life in her home country, she was similarly observant of her trip to New York.

Readers will feel her excitement and cheer as the two arrive at JFK Airport, ride through Manhattan, and enjoy a family reunion before settling in Westchester, New York.  Her previous interest in tennis—popular in her Romanian neighborhood—was rekindled, but it took a few years before she pursued serious opera studies.

The quince tree isn’t only featured as part of the book’s title but also has significance throughout her story. We learn of its importance early on when Necula talks about the family garden and the tree that stands tall.  She was its appointed guardian, spending time beneath it, and referred to it as a “wizard” because of its fruit her mother turned into a sweet nectar. Later, as she recreated opera moments, it was the tree she sang to. As she prepared to leave her home and garden, it was the quince tree she visited.  “I sang a few random phrases from La Traviata into a tiny hole in its bark,” she wrote and imagined the rustling of its leaves as applause.

The memoir genre has given voice to what would’ve been forgotten memories and insight into our times, past and present. Readers are all the better and more informed by these brave writers who put their stories on paper. Necula has opened a window into life under an oppressive ruler, having possessions and freedoms taken away, but also finding peace and hope in the enjoyment of music.  Despite their life under the heaviness of a dictatorship, both mother and daughter were saddened to leave their house and homeland. If we can take anything away from this book, it’s that no matter where we live, the desire for security, we share the desire for beauty and freedom. 

The Power of the Arts

Torn between her desire for the opera and emerging writing talent, Necula found a footing in each world. Studying music, then switching her college major to literature, she found another way to express herself.  While she did perform in a variety of operatic productions, Necula decided to move forward with a writing career. As a lifestyle site contributor, Necula is the author of two books and a poetry collection. In her memoir’s Afterword, she wrote, “Having lived in that universe behind the Iron Curtain, I witnessed firsthand opera’s power to transcend barriers and unite an entire audience into one single breath of resistance and defiance.”
The Voice Beneath the Quince Tree: A Memoir of Growing Up in Communist RomaniaBy Maria-Cristina Necula Self-Published, Oct. 17, 2024 Paperback: 279 pages
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MJ Hanley-Goff
MJ Hanley-Goff
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MJ Hanley-Goff has written for Long Island’s daily paper, Newsday, the Times Herald-Record, Orange Magazine, and Hudson Valley magazine. She did a stint as editor for the Hudson Valley Parent magazine, and contributed stories to AAA’s Car & Travel, and Tri-County Woman. After completing a novel and a self-help book, she now offers writing workshops and book coaching to first time authors, and essay coaching to high school students.