Off we go again!
For students and parents, this is a time for “Back to School Specials,” hunting down composition books, pens and pencils, lunch boxes, clothes or uniforms, backpacks, and other necessities for the classroom.
And now is also the perfect time for parents or guardians to pause and ask themselves: What do I want for my child’s education? If Johnny and Sarah are going to spend thousands of hours over the next nine months riding a bus, sitting in a classroom, and staying after school for clubs and team sports, how can I help them gain from all that time and effort?
‘Be Prepared’
Practice that Boy Scout motto right from the start.Because of our different work situations, for years, I rather than my wife was the principal teacher of our homeschooled children. When they were quite small, we’d often spend the first 10 or 15 minutes of the school day rounding up textbooks, readers, and notebooks. Finally, I bought a bunch of storage bins, assigned one to each child, and made those the receptacles for their school supplies. With this simple solution, we ended the frustration and wasted time of searching all over the house for missing items.
‘Stop, Look, and Listen’
For years, I taught history, literature, composition, and Latin to seminars of homeschoolers. With the exception of Latin, I gave out a hard copy syllabus to every student, detailing for the semester the weekly reading and assignments. At the end of each class period, we went over the syllabus for the following week. Yet, in the larger seminars, particularly among students new to me, there were always some who arrived in class missing a composition or having forgotten at home their copy of Shakespeare’s “Romeo and Juliet.”Here again, parents can take a hand. Beginning with their elementary school gang, they can inquire every day whether their students came home with any school work. Shrugs, rolling the eyes, and vague answers won’t do here. Once they begin to answer in specifics, it means they are thinking in specifics. The idea is to develop in them the habit of knowing when they leave the classroom what the assignments are for the next day.
Neatness Counts
Often as a teacher, when I collected essays or homework from a class, one or two of the students would rummage through their backpacks and finally pull out a wrinkled or torn sad-looking piece of paper. Not only were they disorganized, they were also messy.Teach your children that, like a great meal in a nice restaurant, presentation counts. The teacher who must spend extra time deciphering the smudged answers to questions from the U.S. history text or the all-over-the-page algebra problems won’t be a happy diner.
Make Them Responsible
You get a call from the school or your child. Michael has left his lunch on the kitchen counter or Elizabeth has forgotten to bring that essay on “The Scarlet Letter” that is due today. Do you go into the delivery business or do you let them take the consequences? It’s your call, but sooner or later—and hopefully, sooner—the kids need to suck it up, suffer some consequences, and assume responsibility for their actions.Home Life
Whatever sort of school your children attend, you need to know that their education doesn’t come to a halt when the bell rings at the end of class or they close that chemistry book. Their real education is taking place every day, summer or winter, in the home that you provide for them. You can enhance their knowledge by reading stories to them, discussing politics and history at the supper table, or taking them on nature walks.These are all good and noble endeavors, but the truth is, they are learning from you every minute they spend in your company: the difference between right and wrong, the practice of courage and patience in the face of hardship and setbacks, and the meaning of justice.
The home and the family, even when that home may be a one-bedroom apartment and that family may be a single mom or dad, is the birthplace and incubator of character and virtue. The tips mentioned above, aimed at success in school, are just a small part of the map we can give children for making their way in life’s journey.