A 9-year-old Oklahoman boy who has spent six years in foster care has gotten offers from potential adoptive parents in droves since hitting headlines with his heart-wrenching story. Jordan just wants a mom and dad to call his own; his younger brother, Braison, has already been adopted.
“I hope one of y’all pick me,” he added.
Unfortunately, the physical and behavioral needs of a child in foster care who has experienced trauma can be overwhelming for many potential parents. Marlowe had previously interacted with a couple of families that expressed interest in adopting Jordan, but after certain “disclosures,” he said, the families decided that the 9-year-old wasn’t the right fit for their situation.
Placing Jordan, who has “been through a whole lot” compared to most of the kids under Marlowe’s supervision, has been extremely difficult. After a run of rejections, the staffers overseeing Jordan’s adoption application process have kept Jordan in the dark about his rising viral fame.
They don’t want to get his hopes up.
Jordan’s younger brother, Braison, is living with his adopted family in Oklahoma. The boys want to remain close to one another, and Braison’s adoptive parents have already agreed that they would be open to facilitating playdates.
The brothers first made headlines in 2017, before Braison was adopted, stating that they desperately wanted to live together. They had been living in separate foster homes for two years after being taken in by Oklahoma’s Department of Human Services (DHS) as toddlers.
Of the foster kids in care in Oklahoma, roughly 500 are ready for adoption. Marlowe said that he hopes the publicity surrounding Jordan’s heartbreaking case will provide the boost that his team needs to secure a happy ending for the brother left behind.
“I’m really excited about this,” Marlowe shared, “and very hopeful this is going to be the breakthrough we needed to find this kid a home.”