These days, a walk down a department store toy aisle brings some shocks.
Garish colors and lights flash at you, while canned sound effects crackle through the air. Everything is overdone and overblown—and heavily trademarked. Monstrous, demonic-looking figures leer off the shelves of the boys’ section, while the girls’ section is filled with teen dolls dressed like strippers or prostitutes. And little Asher is melting down because Mom won’t let him buy the latest action figure based off last summer’s movie (of dubious moral character). As if that isn’t enough, most of what you see is manufactured overseas and made of cheap plastic or other petroleum products.
What happened to toys with real educational, imaginative, and aesthetic value? What happened to wholesomeness and beauty in the objects that color a child’s earliest experiences of the world?
Wooden Toys
While simple wooden blocks, trains, or animals may seem dull to us compared with flashy electronic toys, there are many reasons to prefer the former over the latter.
Toys for the youngest children fall squarely within the gymnastic stage of education: They ought to, first of all, be fun. In addition, they should develop motor skills, coordination, and a “feel” for physical reality, which is the foundation for all later learning. Toys for slightly older children should begin to engage the imagination and memory as well, filling it with beautiful and meaningful images that become the raw material for thought, building toward a healthy intelligence.
According to Senior, “The first necessity is getting ourselves and our children into ‘naked’ contact with the world God made, not just in school, as study, but habitually in our whole way of life.” In order to foster this contact with the world, Senior recommends homes filled with “natural materials, simple and attractive, with harmonious wood furnishings and handmade objects.”
Simple wooden toys improve children’s social, creative, and problem-solving abilities. Professor Jeffrey Trawick-Smith at the Center for Early Childhood Education said, “Some of the toys that look most interesting to adults aren’t particularly effective in promoting development.” In his analysis of different types of toys, he found that basic hardwood blocks, wooden vehicles and road signs, and traditional construction toys scored the highest in promoting positive play behaviors. “These toys are relatively open-ended, so children can use them in multiple ways,” according to Mr. Trawick-Smith. This stimulates creativity and problem-solving.
Building Toys
Invented around 1916 by John Lloyd Wright, son of the famous architect Frank Lloyd Wright, based on a construction project that his father was working on, Lincoln Logs are one of the oldest building toys you can find. The simple log-shaped wooden blocks have notches that make them fit together snugly in all of the configurations your child can dream up.History-Based Toys
My wife informs me that I must include paper dolls on this list of toys. She and her sisters and cousins expended countless hours playing with their ever-increasing collection of historical paper dolls when they were children. She tells me that the best paper doll artists are Tom Tierney and Kathy Lawrence. Shockingly, I have no personal experience of paper dolls: For me, no toy was interesting unless it involved vehicles, adventures, or battles, and I saw no point in spending my time changing the outfits of pieces of paper. Now, however, I have a deeper appreciation for the artistry and historical research that goes into paper dolls. And, no doubt, there must be something that a child could do with them, although exactly what it is still escapes me.For my part, I much preferred to build cities, castles, navies, and armies using Playmobil’s historical sets, primarily their Roman, pirate, and knight collections. While some of these sets are hard to find now, the German-based company still makes a number of history-based toys, and although they’re plastic, they’re higher quality than most petroleum-based playthings.
Classic Outdoor Toys
There’s a reason that “the little red wagon” has become a symbol of childhood, a nostalgic icon of long summer days spent playing out of doors. A sturdy red wagon, such as the classic one from Radio Flyer, is a versatile toy. Children can wrangle Dad into giving them a ride in it, or they can pull one another. They can imagine that they’re pioneers traversing the Great Plains, or they can carry supplies for a fort into the woods with it. (For lighter loads, the old-fashioned Tonka steel dump truck can serve the purpose well.) Tricycles and bikes pair well with a wagon. Radio Flyer makes a tricycle in its signature red that matches the wagon. Other classic outdoor toys include badminton sets, tire swings, tents, and rubber-band-powered airplane gliders.All of these selections will get kids outdoors, instead of inside, bewitched by screens. This contact with the outdoors is critical for our individual and societal health. As journalist Richard Louv writes in “Last Child in the Woods: Saving Our Children from Nature-Deficit Disorder,” “At the very moment that the bond is breaking between the young and the natural world, a growing body of research links our mental, physical, and spiritual health directly to our association with nature.”
Toys That Aren’t Toys
One of the most memorable gifts that I received as a child was a toolbox, from my parents, with real tools in it that were kid-sized rather than full-sized. I recall being delighted that these were real tools that I could actually use for little buildings projects. It made me feel more grown-up and responsible, while also giving me an excellent introduction to the proper use of a hammer, screwdriver, tape measure, and even a handsaw. I still have some of those tools.Options in this category include tools, a BB gun, camping equipment, a bow and arrow, binoculars, a vacuum cleaner, a musical instrument, painting supplies, a sewing machine, and cooking utensils.
For older children, this can be a great option because it urges them to enter a little into the adult world, which, for the right child, will be more exciting than just another toy to add to their play world. It could be a welcome surprise that upends the expectation of just another doll or another Lego set.
Naturally, some children won’t have the maturity for such gifts, or they may just really prefer the Lego set. And that’s fine. Safety must be taken into account, of course. But some responsible children will be excited to begin interacting “with the real world,” and they will value, too, their elders’ sign of trust and love that accompanies these gifts.