Grandma’s vegetable garden, in a village called Crangeni in the Muntenia region of Romania, runs downhill toward a wetland formed by the thinning stream of the Calmatui River. It’s flanked by two diamond hole wire fences, while the marsh is a natural boundary.
Some minute rills that flow into the river form a small pond at the bottom of the garden plot. The fertile soil surrounding it is a perfect habitat for all kinds of mud-sucking perennial plants. There, stinging nettles thrive.
They took over the marshes and spread upward over the garden grounds, following the wire fences’ unconventional borders, like voluntary sentinels, ready to fight and die for their realm. At least, this is what I imagined as a child when Grandma put a sock on my hand to teach me how to forage for them, tip by tip.
Legends and Traditions
We always foraged for stinging nettles in spring, before Palm Sunday. In Romanian folk culture and pagan traditions, that day is identified as “the nettles’ wedding,” as the plants start to blossom. They say nettles are no longer edible after this sacred day, because once they start flowering, the tiny purple blossoms eat all the nutrients, rendering the leaves unusable for culinary purposes. This warning rings true beyond superstition, too: Once nettles flower and mature, they develop cystoliths in the leaves, which can irritate the urinary tract.In Romania, nettle dishes are common during Lent, when followers of the Greek Orthodox rites don’t consume any foods derived from animals.
These plants have a meaningful legend behind them, too. They say a poor man once wanted to give something back to the people who pitied and fed him in his time of need. He saved every penny for months, and when he had enough, he bought all kinds of cold cuts to fix a fancy feast, but no one showed up. Saddened, he buried all the meat in his field. God gave him a patch of nettles on that spot, so he would never go hungry again.
A Springtime Superfood
Each season, we fixed nettle soup or a garlicky sauté, along with that dish my grandma called “spring’s blessing,” an invigorating green purée. But it was nettle tea, brewed with a pinch of salt, that I loved the most. The infusion has a metallic aftertaste, and a faint marshy odor reminiscent of the bog and decaying forest leaves in autumn—probably not the average person’s cup of tea. I used to drink the hot brew after every harvest in my childhood.“Drink—it’s health in a cup,” my grandma used to say.
She didn’t have to insist, for I liked the taste—long before I knew the potion was rich in amino acids, iron, and other minerals, vitamins A, B, C, and K, and more. At the time, it didn’t matter. It still doesn’t, although now it’s good to know that a childhood “vice” is actually a superfood.
Finding Nettles
In time, I learned to forage for nettles with my bare hands. I pluck the very tip of the plant—the part that stays closed, almost like a bud—by grabbing the stem underneath, careful not to touch the leaves. This part is very tender, and it will cook quickly. I don’t use scissors, but many people might find them helpful to avoid the sting. The stems still sting me, but not as much as you’d think.However, if you are a beginner and want to venture out to forage, you should wear thick gloves, long sleeves, and long pants. They can be merciless, and their sting may cause life-threatening allergic reactions. I am not allergic, and I’ve been foraging for nettles in the wild every spring since I was 7 years old—my methods are not for beginners.
You can find nettles growing in rich, moist soil along riverbeds, in orchards, and along the margins of woodlands. You should only forage them in early spring before they start flowering. Once they do, the plant becomes bitter and toxic for consumption.
If you don’t want to risk your skin foraging them, check out your local farmers markets. They might pop up on some stands, and the farmers are skilled enough to know the edible plants from those that aren’t good for you.
Use a cotton tote bag, a paper bag, or a wicker basket to transport nettles—they don’t do well in plastic because they “sweat” and wilt faster, losing their freshness. (Although wilted nettles are not supposed to sting, you’d be surprised how many times they decide to challenge this common belief. Only once blanched, cooked, or dried do nettles lose their bite.)
Cooking With Nettles
To make nettle tea, you can simply add some clean, fresh nettle tips to boiling water, blanch for a minute, then remove from heat and set aside to rest for 5 minutes. Strain the brew through a small sieve and enjoy with honey or sugar and a pinch of cinnamon. I prefer it salty—it just makes more sense to me, because it reminds me of the way my grandma used to have me drink the “health in a cup.”If you don’t find the tea so tempting, but still want to enjoy the full benefits of nettles in spring, you can use them in a variety of dishes, just as you would use spinach—barring salad, as raw nettles sting. From pesto to soups, pies, and mains, cooked nettles are highly versatile and have great nutritional value.
Here are two Romanian recipes that I learned from my grandmother. Nettle recipes differ from household to household, so feel free to adapt them and make them yours.