There were more than 35 extremely well-traveled kids on board with us. For many this had been their seventh continent. The trip offered one eye-popping adventure after another in amazingly good weather, especially with sunny blue skies this New Year’s holiday.
“The Best Christmas ever,” said Sydney Beal, 21, from Minneapolis. She and her sister, Kyndall, 18, she explained, I much “prefer doing something instead of opening a bunch of presents.”
“I’ll always remember this,” declared Olivia, 10, from Melbourne, Australia.
From a Zodiac inflatable boat in the Errera Channel between Ronge Island and the Antarctic Peninsula, we watched Gentoo penguins jump off an ice floe to “shower” in the water, and then jump back on the ice to preen in their formal wear while the crab-eater seals were lounging on ice floes.
Some families were celebrating—a recovery from cancer, a graduation, a retirement. And when it comes to a place like Antarctica, they are anxious to see it before more of it disappears. That includes young adults who increasingly travel with their parents.
“Money well spent,” said Kay Beal, Sydney and Kyndall’s mom. “And much better than a shopping spree.”
Besides a trip, most Americans also agree that uniqueness makes for the best-gifted experience (79 percent), followed by exclusivity (70 percent). If they were to have an experience this holiday season, most people are hoping to be surprised with tickets to a concert or a show, an outdoor activity, perhaps a museum visit.
Consider the kids’ ages before booking expensive activities. I remember one grandmother terribly disappointed that her young grandchildren didn’t appreciate the scenery on a single-gauge railroad trip in Colorado and couldn’t wait for the ride to end.
I’m not saying toss out all of the gifts under the tree. I’m just suggesting giving a trip or an experience for next year, a birthday, anniversary, etc. It needn’t be a holiday trip either. Picking a time that works with everyone’s schedule can take some work. If you are giving a trip, don’t make it a surprise!
My in-laws generously paid for all six kids and grandkids to attend a family reunion at the YMCA of the Rockies in Colorado—so popular for family reunions that there is special staff to help them organize their trip.
Traditional cruises, however, are overwhelmingly popular for multigenerational groups and I have met many of them on board. According to the Cruise Lines International Association State of the Cruise Industry 2023, cruising continues to be one of the fastest growing sectors of tourism, according to the report, but today 73 percent of cruise travelers are sailing with family members that represent at least two generations.
It’s easy to see why—activities for all ages, one price for lodging meals, and entertainment, and the ability for family members to go their own way during the day and gather for dinner. Remember, no one wants to be in lockstep the entire time!If you are thinking about giving a trip in the coming year, it’s wise to work with a travel adviser who not only can get you the best deal but also field everyone’s concerns and questions. Once you have the dates set, consider everyone’s ages, interests, and mobility.
Are they outdoors-lovers? Maybe cabins near a national park would be a good fit. Are they beachgoers or snow aficionados? Do they want something familiar or something they have never done? Do they love Disney and all things theme park? Do you want something where no one has to do any heavy lifting—a cruise, an all-inclusive resort, a dude ranch, for example—or does your gang prefer a more hands-on experience where they share the cooking and chores.
If the “gift” is a big rental house at the beach or snow resort, discuss in advance who will be responsible for grocery shopping, cooking and clean-up and most important, who is paying for what.
Often, grandparents spring for the trip but their kids pay for flights and extras. In other cases, the “kids” treat the grandparents. It is key to be upfront about all things money.
Also consider how well everyone gets along. You want to make sure there is sufficient space (and bathrooms) for family members to get away from the group when needed. And no fighting about politics, parenting, or lifestyle.
Merry Christmas!
And happy travels in 2024!
