As young children, the power of speech and language allows children to get what they want and need. Relationships grow as we are able to talk back and forth with other people. As children enter school, they learn new words and new ideas through speech and language.
If a child gets behind, even at a young age, it can have lifelong impacts if they don’t receive intervention. All the research says that the earlier we catch delays in children, the better chance they have of catching up.
When parents are aware of the developmental norms and milestones for speech and language, they’re ensuring their children can get the help they need if they begin to fall behind.
By 3 months, a child should recognize the voice of a caregiver; by 6 months, they should be making a variety of sounds (/p/, /b/, /m/). By age 1, children should be saying their first word and understanding the word “no” and other simple directions.
Between the age of 1 and 2, toddlers should be able to respond to simple questions and be putting two-word phrases together. Between 2 and 3 years of age, children should be understanding more complex directions and using three-word phrases.
Between the ages of 3 and 4, children should be able to start using concept words for colors and shapes, and answering simple questions. By the time a child is between 4 and 5 years old, they should understand most of what is being said around them and be able to hold a back-and-forth conversation.
Reading to your child even when they are newborns is another great way to give them new words with relevant pictures they can connect to.
Varying the sentence length you use when you interact with your child is important. Sometimes during play, it’s best if you use short phrases or even single words to label things around you as you play together. Other times, it’s good to model a nice long sentence just so they are hearing a variety of words.
Singing with your child is an incredibly engaging way to help your child learn new words and ideas. It can be especially fun when you add meaningful motions or even show them pictures of what the song is about.
Children who don’t make eye contact, smile, or try to “talk” to caregivers may be developing abnormally. By age 2, your child should have around 50 words and understand simple directions. By age 3, you should be able to understand the majority of what your child is saying.
If that doesn’t seem to work, you can look for speech therapy clinics in your area or call the local school district for resources.
Luckily, children are very resilient, and I have high hopes that they will be able to catch up from any deficits that masks may have caused.
The children who seem to be having the hardest time are those who are getting speech therapy for articulation disorders and are not able to see the speech therapist make the sound. A big part of speech therapy is the visual input of seeing your therapist make the sound. As a speech-language pathologist, this has certainly been a struggle for me and my young clients.