Our Thoughts, Destiny: Jane Russell Versus Marilyn Monroe

What can these two Hollywood sirens reveal about the effects our deepest thoughts have on our lives and destinies?
Our Thoughts, Destiny: Jane Russell Versus Marilyn Monroe
“Young Man Between Vice and Virtue,” around 1560, by Paolo Veronese. Oil on canvas. Prado Museum, Madrid. Public Domain
James Sale
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The book “As a Man Thinketh” was first published, astonishingly, in 1902, yet its shadow stretches right up to the present moment. British philosopher-writer James Allen’s text is one of the most famous and frequently cited texts in the personal development movement that has enveloped the world since the 1950s and ‘60s. Every significant American personal development guru cites it: Napoleon Hill, Earl Nightingale, Bob Proctor, Zig Ziglar, Louise Hay, and many more.

Its endurance may be due to its central contention: “As a man thinketh in his heart so is he.”

This sentence is actually a quotation from Proverbs 23:7, but Allen’s book is not simply a Bible-based exposition; it demonstrates, in a secular way, how some of its insights are applicable today.

Specifically, what the quotation means is that our thoughts, our deep thoughts (those in our hearts), determine who we are and what we become.

Author James Allen from his 1913 edition of “As a Man Thinketh.” Internet Archive. (Public Domain)
Author James Allen from his 1913 edition of “As a Man Thinketh.” Internet Archive. Public Domain

Unlimited Potential?

The corollary to this idea—this belief—aligns with a core American tenet: You can be whatever you want to be; life and its potential are unlimited. This idea is core to the work of great American personal development guru Brian Tracy, who cites Allen as an influence. It is, essentially, the American Dream, verbalized.

I am a great advocate of personal development (I mean, who would not want to develop as a person?), yet I don’t fully subscribe to the idea of unlimited human potential. For one thing, it flies in the face of all ancient wisdom: Man is mortal; know thyself—meaning, know you are not a god! There is a limit—thus far, and no further! To go further than the limit is hubris, and the gods—not to mention God Almighty—always punish hubris, since it is the sin of pride.

Depiction of Fides (Faith), Spes (Hope), and Caritas (Charity), 19th century, by Julius Schnorr von Carolsfeld. (Public Domain)
Depiction of Fides (Faith), Spes (Hope), and Caritas (Charity), 19th century, by Julius Schnorr von Carolsfeld. Public Domain

That said, I do subscribe to James Allen’s view that our thoughts greatly contribute to our reality, our happiness or otherwise, and so, ultimately, to our destiny. As he says, “Strong, pure, and happy thoughts build up the body in vigour and grace”; and further, “a particular train of thought persisted in, be it good or bad, cannot fail to produce its results on the character and circumstances.” Aren’t these sound observations and useful, good advice?

Furthermore, James Allen doesn’t fall into the sloppy thinking by asserting that the virtuous are always rewarded and the vicious always punished. He sees that even vicious people may have some good qualities that enable success (and virtuous people may have faults which block their progress). In addition, “time and chance” happen to all people, as it says in the Bible (Ecclesiastes 9:11). But critically, good seed produces good fruit, and bad seed does not (also note Christ’s parable of the weeds in Matthew 13:24–30).

Contrasting Examples

Leading stars of the 1953 film “Gentlemen Prefer Blondes,” Marilyn Monroe and Jane Russell are cementing their handprints at the Chinese Theater in Hollywood on June 27, 1953. <span style="font-weight: 400;">(</span><a href="https://digital.library.ucla.edu/catalog/ark:/21198/zz0002np7z"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Los Angeles Times Photographic Collection</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">/</span><a href="https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0"><span style="font-weight: 400;">CC-BY 4.0</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">)</span>
Leading stars of the 1953 film “Gentlemen Prefer Blondes,” Marilyn Monroe and Jane Russell are cementing their handprints at the Chinese Theater in Hollywood on June 27, 1953. (Los Angeles Times Photographic Collection/CC-BY 4.0)

Rather than launch into an overview of world history in the light of what we perceive individuals or groups “think in their heart,” or what they base their movements and ideologies on, I’d just like to observe the thoughts of two glamorous women and their outcomes. Jane Russell (1921–2011) was an alluring Hollywood movie star. Her greatest film success was probably in “Gentlemen Prefer Blondes,” where she co-starred with Marilyn Monroe (1926–1962). They became friends, but how differently their careers and their outcomes proved to be.

Monroe’s comment on Russell: “Jane tried to convert me to religion, and I tried to introduce her to Freud.” This one sentence suggests their destinies. Does it also prophetically indicate what follows?

Jane Russell was a committed Christian; she had problems, including alcoholism, after the death of her third husband (two of her husbands died, one of a heart attack after only 3 months of marriage). But what you see, as she lived until she was 89, is resilience—a toughness, a belief in God and herself—that could not be completely displaced by devastating external circumstances. She achieved things and had a real life.

Indeed, later in her career, Russell appeared on several TV shows to testify to her faith and how it had sustained her. One notable appearance was on the popular Christian TV program “Hour of Power,” which the renowned televangelist Robert H. Schuller hosted. At this event, she shared her personal testimony and spoke openly about her struggles and triumphs, emphasizing the importance of faith and reliance on God in overcoming life’s challenges.

With resilience, faith in God, and a belief in herself, Russell lived until she was 89 years old. (Archive Photos/Getty Images)
With resilience, faith in God, and a belief in herself, Russell lived until she was 89 years old. Archive Photos/Getty Images

Monroe, on the other hand, five years younger than Russell, died at only 36. In thinking that Freud was some sort of liberating god, she abandoned herself to its priest—a psychoanalyst—of this particularly hopeless religion. As American classicist Allan Bloom drily observed: “Freud says that men are motivated by desire for sex and power, but he did not apply those motives to explain his own science or his own scientific study.” Hence, dark and chthonic forces seem to have been with Monroe. Happy? She didn’t appear so.

She began seeing Ralph Greenson, a prominent psychiatrist in Los Angeles, in 1960 and continued until her death in 1962. The therapy sessions were aimed at addressing her emotional struggles, including depression, anxiety, and feelings of inadequacy. The relationship with Greenson was allegedly complex, and he became deeply involved in Monroe’s life. He allowed her to stay at his home when she was particularly distressed, which for me certainly seems to compromise a therapist’s objectivity.

Monroe’s death in 1962 was officially ruled a probable suicide by overdose, and the heroic, romantic view of her fate is that it tragically cut short her ongoing treatment and left many questions unanswered about the extent to which therapy was helping her cope with her inner demons. But was it? Or was it feeding the demons?

What Our Preference Says About Us

American broadcast journalist Edward R. Murrow points to an image of Marilyn Monroe who was scheduled for a television interview on '"Person to Person," 1955. (Hulton Archive/Getty Images)
American broadcast journalist Edward R. Murrow points to an image of Marilyn Monroe who was scheduled for a television interview on '"Person to Person," 1955. Hulton Archive/Getty Images

Of course, Hollywood loves Monroe more than Russell, as does the public. According to American Film Institute’s “100 years ... 100 stars” list, Monroe is ranked sixth in the all-time greatest female legends list. But this is exactly the same kind of love experienced by Jimi Hendrix, Janis Joplin, Amy Winehouse, and anyone else we might want to name: We crave the spectacle of talented or artistic people self-destructing in the name of freedom, in the delusion of liberty, in the craze of excess.

Somehow, their fates justify our more modest indulgences and vicarious pleasures. We become voyeurs of their lives and equate this self-destruction with freedom, as opposed to what it really is—license, or even more accurately, self-indulgent anarchy.

However that may be, there is no getting away from what a man (or woman) thinketh. Ultimately, we pay the piper for those deep thoughts that reveal what we really want. So, it is better right at the start to find role models who inspire us to do good and to be good, rather than celebrate the helpless and hopeless who pretend they’ve achieved freedom and personal expression. It’s quite clear that they are unhappy in and of themselves. Better Jane Russell than Marilyn Monroe!

“Young Man Between Vice and Virtue,” around 1560, by Paolo Veronese. Oil on canvas. Prado Museum, Madrid.
“Young Man Between Vice and Virtue,” around 1560, by Paolo Veronese. Oil on canvas. Prado Museum, Madrid.
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James Sale
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James Sale has had over 50 books published, most recently, “Mapping Motivation for Top Performing Teams” (Routledge, 2021). He has been nominated for the 2022 poetry Pushcart Prize, and won first prize in The Society of Classical Poets 2017 annual competition, performing in New York in 2019. His most recent poetry collection is “StairWell.” For more information about the author, and about his Dante project, visit EnglishCantos.home.blog