7 Essential Tips for Ordering Wine at a Restaurant

It doesn’t come cheap, so make sure you have an enjoyable experience.
7 Essential Tips for Ordering Wine at a Restaurant
If there's a wine on the menu you don't recognize, ask the server about it. Maybe it will be a great discovery. Leonardo Izar/Shutterstock
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Most Americans who dine out regularly know something about wine, but usually, it’s just enough to place an order.

But that’s not always true, and the problems that exist in these experiences can be costly and hard to deal with. The following suggestions may help diners forestall problems that may arise.

Read the Wine List Carefully

If the list doesn’t have any vintage dates, ask the server to explain what vintages are available.

Not all wines improve with time in the bottle, and it’s usually best to buy younger white wines to avoid getting a bottle that has been improperly stored. Red wines are trickier to understand and usually call for some knowledge of vintages. (Some 2020 California reds might have suffered from smoke taint caused by wine country fires.)

In general, avoid older rosé wines. Some can develop interesting flavors with a bit of age, but most fade after two years. Today, the best are those from 2023; still OK are 2022s. But many 2021s will be tired.

Ask the Server to Explain Unfamiliar Wines

This is important with many white wines because what may look like a sweet wine could very well be dry, and vice versa. Ask what style it was made in and what foods go with it best. It could end up being a great discovery.

Compare the Printed Appellation of the Wine You Order With the One on the Bottle

Sometimes, they differ. (A wine list may say a wine is from Napa, but the label’s appellation may be “California,” likely a much cheaper wine.)

Restaurant Wines Should Always Be Opened in Front of the Diner

It doesn’t happen often, but on a few occasions over the years, servers have brought me opened bottles. I instantly rejected it. If you accept an open bottle, you may be getting the right bottle, but the wine might be different! (This really doesn’t apply in many European cafes, particularly in rural areas, where wine often is served from carafes.)

You Control the Temperature of the Wines You Order

Some people believe that rieslings and sauvignon blancs are best kept chilled in an ice bucket. But quality chardonnays should be served cool, not cold. On some occasions, servers wanted to keep my chardonnay permanently iced.

Most Young Red Wines Benefit From Decanting

Given the high prices some restaurants charge, one thing you can do to improve your experience is to have a bottle decanted before you pour any into your wine glasses.
I made this suggestion in a restaurant review decades ago and got serious pushback from two restaurateurs. Both said they didn’t own decanters. I replied that because they charged so much for most wines, they owed diners the right to enjoy them properly. (One of them later told me that adding decanters in his classy cafe had paid greater dividends than he had imagined!)

Consider Dessert Wine

Many restaurants offer dessert wines by the glass or the half-bottle. Half-bottles are perfect for four diners. Most people forget about how enjoyable such post-meal experiences can be.
My recent strategy: With the meal, I order just one bottle of wine for four diners—half of what I used to order. Then I finish the meal with a half-bottle of dessert wine. Often, the dessert wine replaces four desserts, and the cost is about the same!

Wine of the Week

2021 Forefathers Sauvignon Blanc, Marlborough ($20): Nick Goldschmidt is one of the world’s top winemakers. He was born and educated in New Zealand, and his brands always produce extraordinarily high-quality wines. This is no exception. It is wildly spicy and floral with distinctive sauvignon blanc characteristics that are absolutely precise for the region. From his website: “Huge floral, white peach, and passion fruit aromas. The mouth is similar with passion fruit and a touch of gooseberry. Long and flavorful with bright acidity. Finishes with a green apple zing.”
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