‘Middle of the Night': Between Love, Longing, and Doubt

This film shows the challenges of a May-December relationship.
‘Middle of the Night': Between Love, Longing, and Doubt
Will Betty Preisser (Kim Novak) and Jerry Kingsley (Fredric March) live happily ever after? “Middle of the Night.” (Columbia Pictures).
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NR | 1h 58m | Drama | 1959

Romantic dramas have long explored the struggles of star-crossed lovers, often focusing on the external forces that conspire to keep them apart. While “Tycoon” (1947) tackled rigid class divisions, emphasizing the near-impossible chasm between the privileged and the working class, “Middle of the Night” (1959) turns its focus toward a different kind of societal barrier—age.

Relationships between older men and younger women have frequently carried a certain stigma in Western societies, with both personal and societal expectations casting doubt on their longevity and sincerity. Even when the individuals involved find comfort and understanding in each other, outside pressure from friends, family, and the broader world can make such romances feel like an uphill battle.

Anchored by the powerhouse pairing of Fredric March and Kim Novak, “Middle of the Night” is a thought-provoking film that examines not only the complications of love, but also the quiet ache of loneliness and the human desire for companionship. The film showcases nuanced performances and understated direction. This is a study of two people searching for connection in a world that insists they don’t belong together.

Jerry Kingsley (Fredric March) listens intently to Betty Preisser (Kim Novak), in “Middle of the Night.” (Columbia Pictures).
Jerry Kingsley (Fredric March) listens intently to Betty Preisser (Kim Novak), in “Middle of the Night.” (Columbia Pictures).

A Fragile Connection

Jerry Kingsley (March) is a 56-year-old, world-weary New Yorker still grappling with the loss of his wife. He is financially secure as the owner of a successful clothing manufacturing business. His romantic life, however, is stagnant, spent in a quiet apartment with his overbearing sister, Evelyn (Edith Meiser). His daughter, Lillian (Joan Copeland), urges him to put himself out there, but Jerry remains emotionally guarded. He draws himself in after the only woman he had an interest in suddenly becomes involved with someone else.

At Jerry’s company, 24-year-old Betty Preisser (Novak) works as an assistant and occasional model for the firm’s designs. Recently divorced from a self-absorbed jazz musician, she drifts through life, uncertain of what she truly wants. She agreed to the marriage and divorce with little resistance. She now feels unmoored, struggling to fend off the unwanted advances of men at work.

One afternoon, emotionally drained, she decides to leave early, taking paperwork home to finish. When Jerry stops by to collect it, he finds Betty alone and overwhelmed. She opens up to him in a way she hasn’t with anyone else; Jerry, drawn in by her vulnerability, offers a compassionate ear. As their conversation stretches on, an unexpected connection begins to take shape.

Betty Preisser (Kim Novak) and Jerry Kingsley (Fredric March), in “Middle of the Night.” (Columbia Pictures).
Betty Preisser (Kim Novak) and Jerry Kingsley (Fredric March), in “Middle of the Night.” (Columbia Pictures).

Bonds and Barriers

Despite their deepening connection, the difference in their ages looms over them. A moment of passion at the clothing factory convinces them that their relationship is real. Jerry impulsively proposes, believing a future together is within reach. Betty, however, is far less certain.

Her sharp-tongued mother (Glenda Farrell) ridicules the idea, calling Jerry desperate and inappropriate. Evelyn sees Betty as someone taking advantage of the situation. Even Lillian, who once found the romance intriguing, begins to voice concerns. This leaves her sorely neglected husband, Jack (Martin Balsam), and Jerry’s business partner, Walter Lockman (Albert Dekker), as the few voices of encouragement. They urge Jerry to go for it.

The film delicately navigates their situation without idealizing it. Betty is drawn to Jerry’s kindness and stability, just as he is captivated by her warmth and energy. Yet their connection is built on a fragile foundation of loneliness and self-doubt.

“Middle of the Night” is less about a grand love story and more about two isolated people searching for meaning in each other, despite the many reasons their relationship may not be meant to last.

Lillian Englander (Joan Copeland), in “Middle of the Night.” (Columbia Pictures).
Lillian Englander (Joan Copeland), in “Middle of the Night.” (Columbia Pictures).

It’s surprising how Novak is able to shed her usual self-assurance, portraying Betty as a nervous and vulnerable woman, a stark contrast to her typically composed screen presence. Even her voice carries an anxious energy, making her feel more genuine and relatable than ever.

March, in turn, brings a heartfelt sincerity to Jerry, though his occasional lapses into an affected ethnic dialect feel unnecessary. It soon becomes evident that his mannerisms shift, depending on whom he’s speaking to, a subtle but telling detail about how people adapt in different social settings.

Unlike the polished romantic fantasies Hollywood often presents, this film unfolds with raw honesty. Paddy Chayefsky’s script teases out the genuine tenderness growing between them. Their relationship offers fleeting moments of joy, like a lively New Year’s Eve party where their age gap momentarily fades into the background. But reality soon crashes down, reminding them that love is never just about two people.

Their biggest challenge is the inquisitional nature of society’s judgments. All of this outside pressure magnifies the fledgling couple’s own insecurities; Jerry grows possessive and Betty questions whether she’s repeating past mistakes.

“Middle of the Night” is a story of longing, uncertainty, and the struggle to define one’s own happiness despite societal pressures.

“Middle of the Night” is available on Tubi TV.
‘Middle of the Night’ Director: Delbert Mann Starring: Kim Novak, Fredric March, Glenda Farrell Not Rated Running time: 1 hour, 58 minutes Release Date: June 17, 1959 Rated: 4 stars out of 5
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Ian Kane
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Ian Kane is an U.S. Army veteran, author, filmmaker, and actor. He is dedicated to the development and production of innovative, thought-provoking, character-driven films and books of the highest quality.