The powerful technological tools we enjoy in modern life sometimes threaten to become our masters. Even with the best intentions, it’s easy to become chained by mindlessly scrolling social media, watching videos, and browsing headlines. Often, our conversations and interactions with others are hampered by the phones in our palms or pockets that constantly tug at our attention, the screen’s blue glow as alluring as a drug.We neglect the person in the room in favor of the ephemeral shadows on the device.
Here are a few ideas for simple ways to regain control of your tech, curb bad habits, and live a fuller life.
1. Set Time Limits
It’s true that we need technology to function in the modern world. But problems arise when we rely too much on it, when it becomes a constant crutch that we turn to for everything. It’s easy for our devices to eat up more time than they should, subtracting from healthier, more fulfilling activities. One approach to the problem is to set time limits for yourself on technology usage. You might inform yourself that you can only use the internet or play games for a set amount of time each day. Use something like Online Stopwatch to track your time. When the alarm goes off, you get off.2. Establish Off-Limits Rooms
In our household, my wife and I have established certain “non-tech” zones. These are rooms where laptops and phones are forbidden. We chose to make our most comfortable, most used rooms into non-tech zones. There are two reasons for this. First, if our devices are relegated to more uncomfortable locales, we’re less likely to camp out on them. Second, we want to preserve the heart of our home—the living room—for family time, conversation, and reading. We don’t want technology at the center of our lives, literally or figuratively.3. Get a Minimalist Phone
Technology dominates our lives because it keeps getting more efficient and convenient. Most people today carry the internet in their pocket, an idea unthinkable a generation ago. Computers (and internet access) were once limited to large, clunky desktops. Now, the web has attached itself to sleek, handheld devices that tag along everywhere. Smartphones’ convenience makes them more addictive than any other device. The world—with its perils as well as its opportunities—is literally at our fingertips.What my wife and I discovered was that because the phone is so portable and accessible, we spent more time using it than was really necessary. Have a question? Pull out the phone. Want to listen to a song? Pull out the phone. Want to browse headlines? Pull out the phone. We did this hundreds of times a day—a bad habit much harder to develop when the only way to use the internet was to sit down at a desktop computer. The more frictionless a process becomes, the more we’ll use it without thinking.
4. Use a Wi-Fi Timer
Rather than limiting specific websites or individual devices, you can limit internet access within your home for all devices. A simple way to do this is to buy an electrical outlet timer for about $10 and plug your Wi-Fi router into it. You can set the timer to shut the outlet off at a given time (9:00 p.m.) and turn it on again at a given time (7:00 a.m.). This will turn off the internet for that window of time. No more late nights with bloodshot eyes fastened on the flickering screen! The friction required to get up, remove the timer, and restart the Wi-Fi is often enough to break the trance and discourage you from spending more time on the internet at night.5. Discard Devices
If all else fails, consider getting rid of some devices. Most of us don’t strictly need all of our devices—desktop, laptop, smartphone, and tablet. We could probably get by with just one of these, or maybe none. Depending on your lifestyle and profession, you might be able to fulfill your internet needs with an hour or two at the library each day. That’s not possible for everyone, of course, but even something as simple as trading out your tablet and laptop for a desktop will curtail your device usage for one reason: friction.A desktop computer is less tempting than the portable tablet on your coffee table, or, worse, a collection of devices scattered throughout the house so that something is always within reach. Similarly, a smartphone can be traded out for a “dumb” phone if you only need to call and text. Making device usage impossible or less convenient may help reestablish healthy tech habits.
These suggestions won’t work for everyone. Each person’s circumstances are different. But I hope that something here will help, allowing you to re-center your life and recover your humanity from the tyranny of the machines. When technology remains a useful tool instead of a distraction, life opens up and becomes much fuller and richer.