Everyone needs downtime, rest, and recuperation from time to time. After a hard day’s work, you probably want to relax and unwind. After strenuous physical activity, you may need to recuperate. After a period of stress or anxiety, you may seek out long-term rest. Such downtime offers an appropriate counter-balance to hard work or challenge.
Sometimes downtime can even be a productive and valuable use of time. Space to think, clear your mind, calm your heart, and leave room for inspiration and serendipity may very well be the best way to spend your time.
On the other hand, we all know what it’s like to give in to laziness. Some people really struggle with shame and guilt about their laziness and find it difficult to break away from it.
I believe that when people are in good mental and physical health, and allow themselves to rest and restore, they will ultimately be productive. If you’re allowing yourself to rest and you’re still not getting the energy to get things done that may mean you need to re-examine some things in your life that are chronically draining your energy. This could be a bad relationship, an unfulfilling job, or an unhealthy approach to dealing with your feelings or anxiety.
If you’re always drained and never have the energy to get things done no matter how hard you try, it’s probably a sign that it’s time to find a therapist that can help you sort out what’s getting in the way of your motivation and passion.
Create accountability. Scheduling work sessions with friends can help motivate people and keep them accountable to follow through with their goals.
Partialize. Break tasks down into a manageable size and approach them over time. For example, if you want to clean out your home but it feels too overwhelming, break it down into smaller tasks that feel more manageable.
For some people that might mean just cleaning out one room per day, for others it might mean just cleaning one drawer per day. Basically, choose the greatest amount you can do without it feeling overwhelming and do that every day until the task is complete.