There are lots of reasons people may not make it to a dream destination: Maybe they lack the time, or the money, or maybe they simply can’t find someone to come along on the trip. This is certainly a reality for plenty of women—on average, women outlive men by more than seven years worldwide, leaving many wives widowed and with travel goals left unfulfilled.
Understandably, the idea of solo travel is daunting, especially for older women. It’s not just about the potential awkwardness or loneliness, it can also be dangerous to travel without a companion. Still, there are ways women can have safe and enjoyable trips alone all over the globe. It just takes careful preparation and effort.
Plan Carefully
The trick to any successful trip is to plan carefully. That’s true if you’re traveling with loved ones, but even more imperative when you’re traveling solo. This begins while you’re still choosing a destination, as each place has different safety considerations, notes Kevin Coffey, a travel skills trainer who previously spent 35 years with the Los Angeles Police Department investigating crimes against travelers.“Even if you’re visiting tried-and-true international destinations with access to typical services like the ones here in the United States, there are different considerations—take a look at Barcelona, which has a very high pickpocketing rate compared to the United States.” he said.
“Whether you’re going to a typical destination or an off-the-beaten-path destination, no matter your age, if you’re a college student, mid-career, a mature traveler, besides researching hotels, resorts, activities, look into the specific safety issues of the area. Look at local crime trends, medical issues, cultural considerations.”
You can easily find this sort of information on government websites, for example. The U.S. Department of State has specific travel advisories listed for countries, which can give you a sense of what you can expect while visiting.
“The more information you have, the more empowered you are to make sure you’re gonna have a safe and great trip,” Coffey said.
Get Medical Insurance
You should also consider investing in travel insurance. Unfortunately, many travelers forego insurance, which is a big mistake, Coffey said, especially if you’re heading out solo.When you’re on your own, you have to cover any major costs you incur. Sure, it’s likely you won’t be hit with additional bills, but accidents happen. Flights are canceled, hotels are compromised and we’re always vulnerable to medical incidents. Your credit card limit may not be able to handle the worst.
“What if you have a medical emergency abroad? Many people don’t seem to realize Medicaid doesn’t cover you internationally,” he explained. Medicare does not usually cover care outside the United States. However, some Medigap plans will cover 80 percent of the cost of emergency care abroad up to a certain limit.
For an example of costs, he said, being in a more remote area could require being evacuated to a larger city, which would incur more costs. “Your average traveler never even thinks about that, and if they’re not spending that time and not potentially looking at additional travel insurance for gaps in their coverage, they could be in for a world of hurt,” he said.
Stay Connected With Friends and Family
You may be physically alone on your trip, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be connected. Make sure you share your plans with your loved ones: Flight details, hotel addresses, your general daily schedule. It’s an important safety precaution.You should also regularly be checking in with friends and family, so they can take action if you run into any issues while traveling. If they’re expecting consistent contact, then they’ll quickly know something is wrong when they don’t hear from you. Plus, it makes the experience more fun to share your photos and travel stories with someone.
Join a Group Tour or Expedition
Some people feel comfortable traveling completely alone, but for many others, it’s just not an option. It might feel too unsafe, or it might just be too lonely.It’s OK to want other people around as you explore! That’s exactly why many companies now run group trips catered to solo female travelers, so women can build connections and community as they travel safely.
“One, it’s convenient. You don’t have to put a trip together, it’s done for you,” explained Debra Asberry, the president and founder of Women Traveling Together. “Then, there’s the camaraderie of the group where you come in as a solo traveler and so is everybody else, so you have this bonding experience and build new friendships. And of course, it’s much safer.”
In fact, these group tours are especially beneficial for older women, Asberry pointed out.
“Every woman of my age will tell you the same thing: As time goes by, we have fewer and fewer female friends in our lives, and we want female friends in our lives,“ she said. ”With this travel organization, we’ve tried to create a community as much as a travel company so that these women can create female friendships later in life. Now, we have women who have lifelong friendships and made connections with women all over the country and tour together regularly.”
While you can explore companies like Sisterhood Travels, The Solo Female Traveler Network, and Damesly to find group trips all over the globe with your fellow women, you can also opt for more traditional tour experiences, like a cruise, to travel on your own but remain safely in a crowd.
