These days, as my virtual mailbag fills with messages and pleas for help, I’m noticing a decided increase in those that are related to debt. I pulled out a couple to share with you today.
Mortgage debt: Your monthly mortgage payment—including principal, interest, real estate taxes, and homeowners insurance—should not exceed 30 percent of your gross monthly income (before taxes). This is called your housing expense ratio.
Student debt: A good rule to follow is that your total student debt should not exceed the first year’s income in your chosen field of study.
Auto debt: Your loan should be for no more than 36 months. With this kind of aggressive pay-back structure, you can be pretty sure your car won’t go upside down where it’s suddenly worth less than your outstanding debt. And you won’t get caught in the trap whereby you are still making payments and big repair bills at the same time. Stick to this rule and you'll have time to save up for the next car.
Credit card debt: It is never OK to have credit card debt. It’s just too expensive. If you are charging more than you can reasonably repay in that same month, you are overspending. That credit card is going to come back to bite you.
Your total monthly debt obligation should not be more than 36 percent of your gross income. Total debt includes the mortgage payment plus other obligations such as car loans, child support and alimony, credit card bills, student loans, and condominium association fees. This is known as your debt-to-income ratio.
I hope this helps as you determine if debt has a place in your financial life, and if so, how to handle it responsibly so it makes your life better, not worse.
Of course, I don’t know your specific situation, but I can tell you this: Drastic measures are the tourniquet you need now.
You may need to move in with family members for a while and sell assets to pay down your debts so you can afford to make the payments without borrowing. You should consider taking on an additional job or working more overtime. Actually, you may need to do all of those things for a time.
It occurs to me that you may be an excellent candidate for credit counseling. You could be connected with a reputable and trustworthy counselor who will go to your creditors on your behalf and set up a payment schedule you can handle. Getting your interest rates reduced could be part of such a plan.
Your situation is not hopeless. There is a way out, I am confident of that!
I hope that you will find the courage to do what may be very difficult right now but will eventually come back to bless you many times over: Go to NFCC.org and click on “find a counselor,” or pick up the phone and call 800-388-2227.
The National Federation for Credit Counseling is a fine nonprofit organization you can trust. I highly recommend these good people.
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