From the archives: This story was last updated in April 2019.
Ever wondered why we call dogs “man’s best friend”? Is it really true that dogs know what we are feeling, thinking, and experiencing? That they know to give us extra attention when we are sick or down? That they remain by our side all the way to the end?If you’ve ever had any doubts about this, an incredible story from North Carolina will sweep them all away. In early April, a 76-year-old veteran named Bill Schiller passed away after developing dementia. Schiller was comforted in his final years by his companion Anne-Marie Sibthorp and especially by their dog, Chief.
Chief was an unlikely addition to Sibthorp’s house, rescued from the pound in 2014. At first, she was worried about not being strong and active enough to keep such a big dog. Sibthorp thought a family with young kids would be the perfect environment for Chief to flourish in.
Alluding to the bond between Schiller and Chief, Sibthorp further said, “They bonded; they belonged together.”
Schiller had led such a busy life that he had never really had time for pets, but in his golden years, he fell hard for Chief. Sadly, in 2017, Schiller developed dementia. He moved from Florida to North Carolina to be with Sibthorp, and Chief was trained as a therapy dog to be able to help Schiller.
But what about Chief? To have the funeral without Schiller’s best buddy wouldn’t have been right. Sibthorp asked the James Funeral Home if the dog could attend, and they said yes. Owner Sam James told WCNC that he understood completely. Cats and dogs “grieve when they lose somebody that they love, and I believe it helps them connect the dots in the same way it helps us connect the dots.”
At the funeral, Sibthorp’s 12-year-old granddaughter, Nina, happened to have a phone handy to take a picture of an amazing moment. When Sibthorp took Chief up to the casket to say goodbye, the dog stood up on its hind legs, leaned into the casket, and licked Schiller’s ear one last time.
“And he just stood there and looked at Bill like he was telling him goodbye. It was really sweet. It meant a lot to Chief to be able to do that and he knows now that Daddy’s okay.”