If you are fortunate enough to be part of the next generation, take the time to consider your choices. The newest generation has unlimited opportunities for success. You are surrounded by adults who have been part of previous generations and have learned from their past mistakes and exhibit unending energy to succeed. You have parents, grandparents, teachers, and church leaders who have a wealth of knowledge and, most importantly, common sense that can offer real-life lessons. Your initial goal should be to select a mentor. Your mentor or mentors need to be tough-minded, caring individuals whom you respect, preferably not family members. Once you have secured a comfortable relationship with your mentor, the ongoing dialogue will expose his or her wisdom, insight, and judgment. These character qualities will be essential as you pursue your next steps.
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I am 73 years old and have been married for more than 50 years to the same woman. I do have some advice for the younger generation.
Family is important. We have three children—all married—and seven grandchildren. We are able to vacation together three or four times a year.
I am still working, but only about 15 hours a week. I started cutting back in my 40s—a very good decision.
Travel when you are young. We started traveling in our 40s all over the United States and to Europe. We were young enough to adjust to the different customs and ways of life. If you wait until you retire, you’ll find travel difficult.
Watch what you eat. In a supermarket, the war is won on the perimeter and lost in the trenches.
Talk to the stranger beside you—about anything. Strangers will surprise you.
Smile.
Regards,
