‘All of Me’: Going for the Jugular by Way of the Heart

‘All of Me’: Going for the Jugular by Way of the Heart
Madison Ferris and Danny J. Gomez in "All of Me." (Monique Carboni)
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NEW YORK—“You don’t know what it’s like” is a phrase people use to try to empathize with a situation they can never really understand—even when they happen to be in a similar position, and sometimes, not even then. Playwright Laura Winters examines this idea in “All of Me,” a sparkling comedic drama presented by The New Group at the Pershing Square Signature Center.

Alfonso (Danny J. Gomez) is leaving the hospital when he runs into Lucy (Madison Ferris), who after a few moments of silence, flirts with him. It’s a conversation which quickly shifts from the classic romcom meet-cute to something more serious, with probing questions from Lucy, hesitant answers from Alfonso, and an obvious mutual attraction.

Lucy and Alfonso, it should be noted, both have disabilities. Lucy, a retired jazz singer with her own YouTube channel, suffers from muscular dystrophy, while Alfonso was paralyzed in an accident when he was less than a year old. They each move about via motorized devices and communicate through an Augmentative and Alternative Communication instrument, which they are both adept at using.

The biggest obstacle to a potential relationship is not their respective afflictions, but their surroundings—financial and familial. Alfonso has a full-time job and lives by himself in a fully accessible home, while Lucy lives with her mom Connie (Kyra Sedgwick), sister Jackie (Lily Mae Harrington), and Jackie’s fiancée, Moose (Brian Furey Morabito). Their money situation is so tight they can barely afford a wooden ramp that allows Lucy to move from one area of the apartment to the other. Connie is more than a little overprotective, often treating Lucy as a child and seeing her only possible future as being a greeter at Walmart—an idea Lucy buys into, despite Alfonso’s urging she go back to school and try to find a new purpose in life.

The differences between Lucy and Alfonso’s backgrounds become even more clear when Connie meets Alfonso’s mother Elena (Florencia Lozano) for the first time. The two women try to find a common ground, but it soon becomes apparent their viewpoints regarding their children are so different it may be a gap impossible to bridge.

Lucy (Madison Ferris) and her mother Connie talk, in "All of Me." (Monique Carboni)
Lucy (Madison Ferris) and her mother Connie talk, in "All of Me." (Monique Carboni)

All The Lessons

“All of Me” stresses the importance of not letting a situation you find yourself in totally define who you are or how you are seen. That holds true whether it’s dealing with a disability, an ongoing sibling rivalry, or a misguided attempt at caring. Hand in hand with this is the need to set and respect boundaries, both in terms of yourself and other people—things like not wanting to be touched by another person unless they ask first, or realizing that just because someone isn’t as skilled as you used to be in a certain area is no excuse to belittle them.

Disabled actors Ferris and Gomez are excellent in their respective roles. Ferris stands out as a woman who lost a significant dream. She finds in Alfonso less of a kindred soul, and more of a man who pushes her to grow. Gomez is strong in the more restrained role of Alfonso, who navigates a possible relationship with Lucy while learning to set new boundaries with Elena, who, as we discover, has her own issues.

Sedgwick is very good as Connie, a cynical woman who has not had any easy time of it  and knows full well that “90% of life is doing thing we don’t want to.” It’s a frustration visible in many of the other characters too. Harrington works perfectly as Jackie, a woman who wants her upcoming wedding to be an event totally focused on her, for a change. She’s also looking forward to the day she and Moose move into a place of their own, noting “I’m the sister, I’m allowed to leave.”

Morabito offers some nice comedic relief and common sense as a loving boyfriend to Jackie and a partner-in-crime for Lucy as the two try to earn money for a good cause, albeit through questionable methods. Lozano comes across well in her few scenes as Elena, a well-meaning but slightly too-permissive woman.

(L-R) Lucy (Madison Ferris), Connie (Kyra Sedgwick), and Jackie (Lily Mae Harrington), in "All of Me." (Monique Carboni)
(L-R) Lucy (Madison Ferris), Connie (Kyra Sedgwick), and Jackie (Lily Mae Harrington), in "All of Me." (Monique Carboni)

Essential to the production are the directorial efforts of Ashley Brooke Monroe. Her work gives the show a crisp, seamless feel, especially when transitioning between sequences. Work by scenic designers Brett Banakis and Edward T. Morris help give the scenes in Connie’s apartment a nicely claustrophobic feel.

With a compelling story and grand gestures that can’t help but bring tears to one’s eyes, “All of Me” takes the premise of two people who meet at different points in their life and turns it into something more than a simple romance.

‘All of Me’ The New Group Pershing Square Signature Center 480 West 42nd Street, New York City Tickets: www.thenewgroup.org Running time: 2 hours, 15 minutes (one intermission) Closes: June 16, 2024
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Judd Hollander is a reviewer for stagebuzz.com and a member of the Drama Desk and Outer Critics Circle.