Ideally, you’d spend months or even years carefully purging excess belongings—but life may have other plans. Maybe you or someone you love has a health crisis and needs to move into assisted living. Or someone has died and their home has to be cleared before next month’s rent is due. Maybe you’re just moving soon and want to significantly lighten your load.
1. Gather Paperwork, Photos, Prescriptions, Perishables
Dealing with paperwork and photos takes time you may not have, says professional organizer Katherine Lawrence of Ashland, Virginia. Consider boxing unsorted documents and photos for temporary storage in a climate-controlled area, Lawrence suggests.Make a plan to sort through the boxes later, since you don’t want to store old bills and blurry photos indefinitely any more than you want to risk throwing away something important if you rush.
2. Identify the ‘keepers’
“Keepers” are possessions that have a definite home. If someone is moving, that includes stuff that will be going with them. If you’re clearing out after a death, keepers may include items destined for heirs.Those officially charged with settling someone’s estate, such as an executor or successor trustee, may be required to hire appraisers to value possessions before anything is distributed. An estate planning attorney or real estate agent may offer referrals, or you can check with the Appraisers Association of America, the American Society of Appraisers, or the International Society of Appraisers.
If you have potentially valuable stuff—such as antiques, jewelry, artwork, or collections—a personal property appraiser could help you figure out what may be worth the extra effort of selling, says Julie Hall, an estate expert in Charlotte, North Carolina, who specializes in personal appraisals and estate liquidations. The appraiser might also suggest appropriate venues, such as an auction house or consignment store, Hall says.
However, hiring an appraiser can cost hundreds or thousands of dollars, which may not always be practical. You also can get a rough idea of many items’ potential worth by checking eBay and using the “sold items” filter.
Once you’ve identified all the keepers, Lawrence recommends tagging them with painter’s tape, which is safe for most surfaces. If items are going to different people or locations, she suggests buying different colored rolls and assigning a color to each person or destination.
3. Decide What to Do With the Remaining Stuff
If you have several rooms of furniture and household items left over, consider an estate sale. These are most commonly held in someone’s home after their death, but they also can help those who need to dramatically downsize, Hall says.Estate sales are often organized by professionals who advertise the sale, price the items, handle transactions and provide security. Estate sales agents may agree to donate or dispose of whatever doesn’t sell. In return for some or all of these services, estate sales agents typically get 30 percent or more of the sale proceeds. Estate planning attorneys and real estate agents may offer referrals to reputable estate sales agents, or you can check with the American Society of Estate Liquidators, a referral organization owned by Hall.
A yard or garage sale can be a do-it-yourself alternative. You also can list items for sale on Craigslist, Facebook Marketplace, or Nextdoor if you have time to photograph each object, write a description and deal with inquiries from potential buyers.
Giving stuff away is another option, but this can be harder than you expect, Lawrence says. Charities are often selective about what they’ll accept, so check their websites or call first to avoid an unnecessary trip.
Some charities will send a truck to pick up approved donations, which could be a time-saver. Another option is giving stuff away using Freecycle.org, a Buy Nothing group, or a “free stuff ” listing on Craigslist.
You may still wind up renting a dumpster, making trips to the landfill, or hiring a junk removal company. The waste can feel painful but may help you be a more conscious consumer in the future.
“I always tell my clients it’s actually harder to get rid of something than it is to acquire it,” Lawrence says.