PDE’s gender identity webpage includes a curriculum guide for teachers to hold a “gender neutral day” in their classrooms in grades 3-12. The guide states that as part of the activity, students should pick two to three ways to reject gender stereotypes for the day, and teachers should make a specific commitment to challenge gender norms in the classroom.
Another section on PDE’s website entitled “Creating Gender-Inclusive Schools and Classrooms” includes a tutorial on “preferred gender-neutral personal pronouns” and instructs teachers to ask before making false assumptions about someone’s gender identity.
MacFarland has worked as a teacher and administrator in traditional public and public charter schools for 24 years. She was the Founding Academy Director of Renaissance Academy in Phoenixville, PA, and finally became the CEO. MacFarland also served as Elementary Director of Avon Grove Charter School before working as an Educational Consultant with Edison Schools.
“So, I think I can honestly say that I understand kids. And I know what best practices and education are,” said MacFarland. “I’ve worked with kids from three to 18 years old.”
She questions whether the brains of young children and adolescents are mature enough to accept the concepts of gender identity listed on the PDE website.
“The preteen brain is not developed, the teen brain is not developed enough. It’s the frontal cortex, a portion of the brain that needs to be developed to be able to handle very difficult concepts,” she said.
“And that part of the brain is not developed until you’re 25. So, we are giving these concepts to kids, this gender theory, discussing your pronouns, asking if you like boys, or girls, when at ages that are completely inappropriate because the child literally, physiologically, emotionally, cannot process this information.”
MacFarland gave a real example: “I know a child who came home from school at nine years old and told her parents that she was pansexual. Because the teacher asked if you like boys and girls, and because she liked both boys and girls, she must be pansexual.”
Confusing Kids
MacFarland believes that imbuing the concept of gender identity only adds to a young child’s burden and confusion.“Fifth grade is when we get into the issues, real issues with bullying, and real issues with kids trying to figure out where they belong in society, even if it’s just their school, in the science society of their school. They’re confused. It’s just that stage of life.
“And so, we’re now throwing on to them some concepts they can’t even begin to understand. That throws them into more confusion. So, is gender theory right for introducing K through eight or even K through 12? No, it’s not, it’s not developmentally appropriate,” MacFarland said.
The Golden Rule
She believes the golden rule instead is much more potent than dividing people up according to race, religion, creed, and nationality.“When we all have our challenges, and we all have our issues, and no one is greater than the other, we have to understand that we need to treat people the way we want to be treated, and that’s the old golden rule,” she said.
“Make kids understand that they’re just human beings like you, and you don’t have the right to say these horrible things to another human being.”
MacFarland realizes that most parents are not aware of the problems with the PDE website.
But when they become aware, she mentioned there are usually two reactions. One is, “They’re appalled. They can’t believe it. What has happened to public schools? I want to pull my kid out.”
“But they’re afraid. They’re afraid to speak up because they’re afraid of retaliation to their kids. They’re afraid of being canceled in their neighborhoods,” she said.
The other reaction is, “You’re a bigot, you’re homophobic, we need to support our children in these decisions that they’re going to be making in their lives.”
Trevor Project Survey
McFarlane noted that in a statistical survey study called the Trevor Project, researchers found that it was sometimes difficult to collect all the data on kids after they were in their 20s. They followed these children for so long and then lost them in their 20s.But the researchers said 75 to 90 percent of the kids identified as transgender or had other gender issues. By the time they were in their 20s, they were back to being heterosexual.
“So that one statistic says, how inappropriate is for us to be bringing up gender theory in their developmental years because they don’t know what to do with the information. And they can’t know what to do with the information,” she said.
McFarlane said that more Pennsylvania parents should be aware of what is being put up on the PDE website. “I would also encourage all those people because we are in the majority to stand up for their kids and our future as a country,” she said.