Can a person change? If you think not, you’re likely shackled with a “fixed mindset,” a handicap that ensnares some degree of many people’s potential by convincing them it doesn’t exist.
People with a fixed mindset believe as Popeye did: “I yam what I yam.”
A fixed mindset breaks our ability to learn and grow by robbing us of the tenacity to try and the endurance to fail and try again.
Perhaps you’re thinking you don’t have a fixed mindset and that you’re just too old to change or set in your ways.
While scientists once believed the adult brain stopped forming new neurons, and struggled to form the new neural connections linked to learning and growth, that is no longer the case.
The counter to the fixed mindset is the growth mindset. People with a growth mindset believe in their ability to develop and change themselves in important ways.
“Mistakes and disappointments are viewed as opportunities for learning and growth, not as identity-defining moments,” writes Ms. Peters.
If you’re unsure of your own mindset, it’s worth taking some time for self-reflection. Another important aspect of your core beliefs about yourself is your locus of control, a concept psychologists use to describe how people perceive their ability to influence their own lives.
There are three common variants that psychologists and researchers discuss.
The first is an external locus of control. People of this persuasion believe their lives are defined by their circumstances. In other words, life happens to them.
The second is the internal locus of control, which is the belief that our lives are defined by our decisions and actions. These people are choosing their own adventure.
And finally, there is a spiritual locus of control, people who believe their lives are governed by the Divine, but in close connection to their faith, choices, and actions. These people live under the influence of a higher power.
“A feeling of having some control over your life, sometimes called self-efficacy, has been shown to help people who are suffering from migraines, diabetes, kidney disease, epilepsy, HIV, Parkinson’s disease, cancers, depression, chronic pain, cocaine addiction, obesity, alcoholism, cigarette addiction, work burnout, shame, and even internet addiction,” she writes.