Officer or Enlisted
The first aspect of navigating this process involves a simple question: were you enlisted or an officer? This is more important than most realize, and it actually plays a significant role within the veteran community that some fail to recognize. Come to grips with the fact that the transitional progression is different for these two groups. Do not try to hide from this reality or act like it is unfair—it is what it is, so accept that and move forward with it.For those who do not believe there is a significant difference, try this experiment: talk to officers who have left the military and talk to enlisted personnel who have spent the same amount of time in. Now ask them if they have been “recruited” into a job in the private sector. It has been my experience that a solid number of officers have had this very thing—large corporations talk to officers leaving the military and convince them to come on board. It has also been my experience that, aside from maybe some Tier 1 guys, this does not happen for enlisted personnel.
While I am sure there are exceptions, the vast majority of the time this is the case. Why does this matter?
This leads me to my second point, which is for both groups to be appreciative of where the other is and what they can and cannot do. For example, I had a former officer giving me tips on how to approach resume writing and job interviews, and I was becoming incredibly frustrated because everything he was suggesting were things I had already employed and it just was not that simple. But then it hit me like a truck—he had no idea what it was like to be in my position. Despite similar educational levels and time on active duty, his background led him onto a path where people sought him out—something that certainly did not happen to me, even after multiple levels of college.
All Veterans Are Not Created Equal
While the distinction between officers and enlisted in their job hunting should be understood, that is just the tip of the iceberg. Underneath that there are several levels of inequality that must be appreciated in the transition process. For example, let’s look at two military jobs in the same field: special operations medic and nurse. While the former may have a ton of really high-speed training that is the envy of a lot of us who know what they went through, who do you think is going to have an easier time finding work in the civilian world?Whether this is “fair” or not is irrelevant—the SOF medic simply does not have the civilian qualifications that a nurse does, and as a result, will be looking at lower-paying jobs. What matters here is not the legitimacy of this reality, but rather the acceptance of it for what it is. This is the case with numerous occupational specialties. I was an Airborne Infantryman and a PSYOP Team Chief. Guess what? No one cares about that anywhere near as much as they do about the guy who was a cybersecurity expert.
I do not state this as a complaint—I am grateful for my experience—but as a fact of the current job market. Cyber security and the skills related to it are in far greater demand than my particular background. Understanding this is important to your transitionary process. Do you have an employable military occupation specialty (MOS) in the civilian sector? If so, how do you maximize it? If not, what do you need to do in order to make yourself more attractive to potential employers?
Military Service Is Not the End-All, Be-All
We are living in strange times, and one of the greatest reflections of the oddities of our society is the veteran job-seeker. “Support the troops” stickers are seen everywhere; yellow ribbons are still regularly on the backs of cars; people are (generally) outraged by any offenses toward the veteran community, etc. Yet despite all of this, most employers do not look at military experience as something that sets a candidate above others.Knowing Is More Than Half the Battle
So if we know that officers and enlisted are looked at differently, that different MOSs are not viewed the same, and that just being a veteran is not enough, how does that help us and what else do we need to know?First, your network is everything. Start thinking in those terms and it will help you immensely. An employer who does not know you from Adam will not care at all about how much weight you carried through the Korengal Valley, but guess what? Someone who knows you personally might. Extend yourself into more diverse networks of people in order to make that possible.
Third, know your resources. Yes, you have the GI Bill, but what else? Are you tied in with any veteran groups that help specifically with this purpose? Are you aware that there are recruiters out there who work towards getting people hired into specific industries? Seek these groups and people out and do what it takes to gain from their knowledge and expertise.
Fourth, and finally—this is probably the toughest one—there is nothing wrong with being confident about your ability. But be humble. The world does not owe you anything because you served. You do not deserve to finish as a squad leader and walk directly into a six-figure income at a Fortune 500 company.
Could it happen? Sure, but do not expect it, and do not get pissed when you, more likely than not, have to start over at the bottom of an organization and prove yourself. This is a tough pill to swallow, doing so will put you considerably further ahead in the long run.