We Can Have Deeper Conversations With Strangers

What do we gain from connecting with strangers—and what holds us back? A new study suggests some answers.

A recent study reveals we have a negative bias in our expectations when it comes to talking with strangers. It turns out that strangers care more than we think. fizkes/Shutterstock

When we talk to strangers, if we talk to them, we often default to “small talk” or “chit-chat.” We may muse about the weather or a recent movie or what we did over the weekend. This surface-level talk may keep us comfortable, but it’s often unfulfilling.

What prevents us from deepening our conversations with strangers?