With Valentine’s day fast approaching, federal and state authorities are cautioning the public to stay vigilant about romance scams, which reached a record of $304 million in losses reported to the federal government in 2020.
Victims are usually asked to send money via wire transfers or through reload cards like MoneyPak or gift cards, officials say.
The agency said that the median amount sent to scammers in 2020 was $2,500, with people 70 and older reporting the highest individual median losses at $9,475.
“Be wary of people you only meet online who are quick to establish a relationship and gain your trust. They may ask for money for an emergency or unexpected expense, and may even ask you to pay for their travel to visit you.”
- Scammers can use details shared on social media and dating sites to better understand and target you. - Research the person’s photo and profile using online searches to see if the image, name, or details have been used elsewhere. - Go slowly and ask lots of questions. - Beware if the individual seems too perfect, or quickly asks you to communicate “offline.” - Beware if the individual attempts to isolate you from friends and family. - Beware if the individual claims to be working and living far away, whether it’s on the other side of the country or overseas. - Beware if the individual promises to meet in person, but then always cancels because of some emergency. - Beware if you’re asked to send inappropriate photos or financial information that could later be used to extort you. - Never send money to anyone you don’t know personally. - Never help anyone move money through your own account or someone else’s. You could become an unwitting money mule for the perpetrator helping to carry out other theft and fraud scheme