I will focus on the body of my work over the past 20 years—focusing on the reproductive bodies of men and women.
Until recently, it was universally accepted that there are two sexes—male and female, and any deviations from the male/female binary were variations of maleness or femaleness. That’s the science. That’s human biology. And the two-sex distinction was based on our chromosomes (XX and XY) and our reproductive capacity. Male means you have a penis, testicles, and produce sperm. Female means you have a vagina, ovaries, uterus, and produce eggs. These two sexes together have the capacity to reproduce. Any inability to reproduce doesn’t take away your maleness or femaleness—an inability to reproduce is what is known as infertility.
But now we have been arbitrarily told, almost overnight, that the very definitions of words such as “man” and “woman” aren’t at all linked to sex but rather to an individual’s subjective sense of gender. Womanhood has been reduced to a feeling and a set of sex-role stereotypes. The news flash is that men can be women and women can be men. And in this global rebrand, actual women are being erased, harmed, and exploited. We are no longer women and mothers, but we are “birthing people,” since men, we are told, can now have babies. Breastfeeding has been swapped out with “chestfeeding” to accommodate “men having babies,” although the lifetime risk of a woman being diagnosed with breast cancer is 1 in 8, but for men, it’s 1 in 833.
Midwives report that in doing their job, they are banned from using words like “women” and “mother” when helping women give birth to become mothers.
One question was raised in a conference I attended where an attendee asked a speaker to talk about “moving beyond the male/female binary” because men who are pretending to be women are uncomfortable talking about their sperm. The speaker agreed that we need to move beyond speaking about male sperm and female eggs and then commented that a “trans female” patient who had banked his sperm before affirmation surgeries was uncomfortable with the word, because sperm is such a gendered word.
But here’s the thing: We’re women until we aren’t. The powers that be have determined that when it’s convenient to use the term “woman” or “female” or “man” or “male,” we can make this biological distinction. Until it becomes politically or ideologically driven to erase and cheat, exploit, and marginalize women. Big Pharma and its proponents first invest millions in peddling the notion that biological sex is arbitrary or irrelevant and then rake in millions by targeting people specifically by sex.
Cases in point:
Turning toward fertility medicine and treatments involving egg and sperm sellers (not donors, as these people are most often paid) and surrogacy, the advertising and marketing clearly are sex-based. Fertility tycoons don’t seem to have trouble discerning which people to target for the exploitation of their bodies.
So, good proper medicine and medical breakthroughs and advances require that we are male and female all the time, not just when it is politically motivated for an agenda. These sorts of ideas that deny maleness and femaleness are not only a detriment to our health and well-being, but also to future generations yet to be born.
Let’s forget using pronouns and get back to the basics of science and human biology.