I knew Nellie well and worked closely with her from my perch coordinating President George W. Bush’s annual remarks to the March for Life for eight years.
Nellie was a tough cookie; she had no problem sharing her opinion with others. Her forthrightness would sometimes rub even her friends the wrong way. She wasn’t willing to compromise with anyone, including her pro-life allies, on any abortion exception, such as for the life of the mother. You could disagree with her, and most pro-life advocates did on that issue, but you couldn’t argue with her perseverance and determination.Nellie reminded me of Mattie Ross, the chief protagonist in the novel “True Grit,” who at several key turns had to buck up U.S. Marshall Rooster Cogburn, reminding him of the ultimate goal of their common quest and not the other way around.
From her cluttered Washington, D.C. townhome, she launched the annual March for Life, held every year since 1974 on the Jan. 22 anniversary of Roe. The March grew into a nationwide event with thousands flocking to D.C. each year, and was eventually addressed by numerous political figures, including the president of the United States. Every year she would tell the attendees, “We will be here until we overturn Roe v. Wade, and believe me, we are going to overturn Roe v. Wade.” A close friend of hers recalled seeing her working on Washington, D.C. zoning permit applications for the March on Christmas Day. Hers was a single-minded devotion.
The March will continue as the battle to defend and protect life plays out in statehouses across the country. Nellie would not have had it any other way. I can imagine her saying, with steely determination, that this is just the beginning of a new battlefront to defend and protect innocent human life and we must soldier on at the state and local levels where the strategic and tactical defense for human life is rapidly shifting.
Like Mattie Ross, Nellie Gray never gave up, even when the odds seemed hopeless and many. All who believe in the sanctity of human life owe her an immeasurable debt of gratitude. She has now become one of American history’s most important and enduring civil rights leaders.