A group of Australian mothers, upset over ugly custody battles, have banded together to raise awareness of the growing abuse of the family court system by women against men.
Mothers of Sons, started by well known Australian feminist, media commentator, and now men’s rights advocate, Bettina Arndt, said she started the initiative because she believed it would be “comforting” for women with similar experiences to share their stories.
“I’ve had people of all sorts contacting me about these issues to do with injustice against men, and many, many of those are women, including mothers who have had sons who’ve suffered dreadful ordeals, particularly in the criminal justice and family law systems,” she told The Epoch Times.
Arndt said she thought it would be a good idea to let the mothers tell their stories in the hope that maybe the mainstream media would take notice “because we’re all supposed to believe women, aren’t we?” she said.
Another case saw a mother claimed that her son, a doctor, was falsely accused of domestic violence and had been fighting an ongoing custody battle for her grandson.
Court System Struggling to Cope With Families
Australia’s family court system has undergone frequent repair jobs since its founding in the 1970s. In fact, over the past two decades, the court has been the subject of 31 reports and five parliamentary inquiries, with the most recent concluding in June this year.Lawyers are unanimous in their assessment of the system, with former President of the Law Council of Australia, Arthur Morris S.C., saying, “There is no doubt Australia’s family law system is broken. Delay, cost, and confusion continue to let down families and children in need.”
Experts believe, however, that the system’s struggles stem from the difficulties of applying rigid legal frameworks to regulate inherently complex, amorphous, and emotional disputes.
“These are people’s lives. They’re not criminals,” Atticus Busby, a Sydney-based family law solicitor, told The Epoch Times.
“A lot of the time, they’re not suing someone for breach of contract or some legal, contractual duty. There’s a moral contract; there’s a mum and dad contract; there’s a contract when you got married. There was a commitment for life which is no longer connected, so now you got all this property to sort out, and there’s a lot of psychological evaluation,” he said.
Augusto Zimmermann, a former member of the Law Reform Commission of Western Australia, said the system was open to abuse by parties who wanted the “marriage the least.”
Men No Longer Given A Place in Media, Politics
Arndt asserts that the dominant narrative in Australian politics and media is on women’s rights, meaning little airtime is available for men’s issues.“This is a woman telling the story of a shocking family tragedy,” Arndt said. “That is a story that would normally attract widespread interest. But in this case, it’s a woman who’s the villain of the piece, killing a tiny child and destroying a man’s family. That challenges the feminist narrative—so the media takes no notice.”
Arndt years of work in promoting men’s issues has also triggered calls for her to be “cancelled” by other feminist groups despite her background as a feminist in Australia.
Bester was 58 years old and Tame’s teacher at the time of the assaults.
Arndt said she thought that feminism had “gone off the rails” and was alienating people.
“There are women across the world who love men and want to see men receive fair treatment,” she said. “Our world is no longer about equality for men and women but about giving advantage to women at the expense of men, and I think there’s no question the majority of women object to that.”
She pointed to the example of Erin Pizzey, the woman who set up the first women’s refuge in the United Kingdom but then received death threats and boycotts from militant feminists after she told the truth about domestic violence perpetrated by either women and men.
“Pizzey is a woman who grew up with a violent mother. So she wasn’t surprised to discover when she was running her refuges, that many of the women coming in were violent towards other women and towards their children, and she started to speak out about that,” Arndt said.
She added that modern feminists had successfully leveraged issues that could gain traction politically and in the media.
Eric Louw, a retired professor in political communication and expert in postmodern theories, says feminist activists were “extraordinarily successful” at spreading their ideas.
“Feminist ideas are now effectively no longer open to critical scrutiny. They are just taken as true and ‘good.’ When an overwhelming majority of journalists in a society take on an idea as ‘given,’ as ‘true,’ and as ‘good’ then you have an ideology,” he told The Epoch Times.
“Once you have such a powerful ideology in place, politicians are going to learn to be very careful. Any politician stepping outside the bounds of what feminist ideology argues is ‘true’ is going to invite serious attack from the mainstream journalist community,” he added.