Breathing. We do it all the time, but how often do we stop to notice it?
What if we spent a few minutes every day focusing on our breathing in a conscious way? What difference would it make? If we learned to breathe correctly, emotions like stress, anxiety, pain, and anger could become more manageable and even melt away, according to Dr. Danny Penman, leading U.K. expert on mindfulness and author of “The Art of Breathing.”
In 2006, he was paragliding over the Cotswald hills in Southern England when he crashed, shattering his right leg. The impact was so strong, the lower half of his leg was driven up through the knee and into his thigh.
To avoid slipping into unconsciousness, Penman forced himself to focus hard on his breathing and remaining calm. By the time paramedics arrived 30 minutes later, he felt in control of the incredible pain and somehow separate from it. He also credits mindfulness for his speedy recovery–his leg healed in six months, rather than the predicted 18.
By focusing on the breath, the effect can be profound and fast, says Penman. In a matter of a few mindful breaths, he guarantees that anyone can become significantly calmer and more in control of their emotional state.
The Lost Art
So, why have people lost the art of conscious breathing?Going back 100 years, most people around the world worked with their hands–in fields or to make crafts—and were in contact with the physicality of the world. People felt more often the connection between their bodies and the earth.
Later, as work became more dependent on technology—in factories and in offices—people became more separate from their bodies and from their breathing.
Yet, humans think with their bodies as much as their brains, says Penman.
In this fast-paced world, we end up living in our minds and chasing our tails as a consequence. Not paying attention to the breath is one outcome of that, he says, which can lead to anxiety, stress, and depression.
The Science Bit
How does mindful breathing work?First, it’s helpful to look consider the mechanisms of the brain and how it constantly adapts to its environment.
“If you’re in a stressful environment, the brain will paradoxically rewire itself to make you feel stress more effectively: ‘This is what you want, so I’ll help you do it!'” Penman explains. The same happens with physical pain.
Mindfulness reverses that process, and this is why it is so important, says Penman. With repeated practice, 10 to 20 minutes a day, five times a week, the brain reverses itself to become calmer, more in control, more clear-sighted, and less anxious and stressed. Repeated this over days and months, we'll eventually spend most of our time in control and feeling happier.
Breath of Fresh Air
Penman’s previous international bestseller, “Mindfulness: A Practical Guide to Finding Peace in a Hectic World,” was aimed at people suffering from mental health issues such as anxiety, stress, and depression.10-Minute Breathing Meditation
- Sit upright and about one to two inches from the back of a straight-backed chair.
- Place hands loosely in your lap.
- Close your eyes.
- Pay attention to the sounds around you, without trying to change anything.
- Pay attention to the feelings in your body. Feel the chair supporting your weight, the floor under your feet, your clothes. Tune into the sensations.
- Move your attention to the breath, then to wherever the sensations of breathing are the strongest. Bring a sense of curiosity to whatever you find, not trying to change anything, just following its natural rhythm.
- Notice your chest muscles and shoulders stretch and relax on the in-breath and the out-breath. Be aware of tightness or achiness and how these change with the rhythm of the breath.
- Become aware of the qualities of your breath: fast or slow, cool or warm, smooth or shallow, etc. Notice the moment you breathe in and the brief pause before you breathe out again.
- Follow the breath all the way in and out.
- When you notice your mind has wandered, pay attention to the thoughts or feelings, acknowledging them without criticizing or engaging with them, then allow them to go. Be understanding to your thoughts. Realizing that your mind has wandered is the meditation.
- Bring your attention back to the breath.
- When you feel ready, bring this meditation to a close, becoming aware of sounds and the space around you.
- Gently open your eyes.
- Move and stretch.
- Pay attention to how you feel.