Helpless Females and Dangerous Males

Helpless Females and Dangerous Males
Human right activists hold placards as they march during a protest against an alleged gang rape of a woman, in Lahore, Pakistan, on Sept. 12, 2020. Arif Ali/AFP via Getty Images
Bettina Arndt
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Once again, Australian universities have shown they prefer ideology over evidence. They have just released their latest survey which alleges that there is a rape crisis on our campuses.

This follows the million-dollar survey conducted five years ago by the Australian Human Rights Commission which proved a huge letdown for the activists because all that was found was a lot of unwanted staring and tiny rates of sexual assault.

I was the only journalist in Australia to suggest we should be celebrating our safe universities whilst mainstream media beat up a new narrative about widespread campus “sexual violence” which activists used to bully universities into setting up the kangaroo courts, implementing sexual consent courses and the like.

Now they’ve tried again, and contrary to what has appeared in the media in recent weeks, the results are even more disappointing for the feminists.

The latest survey published last month found that sexual harassment rates were less than a third of those reported in 2015-16 (8 percent compared to 26 percent), and minimal rates of assault (1.1 percent for the year surveyed compared to the earlier figure of 0.8 percent).
What a joke, given that they’d done everything they could to expand the definitions of sexual misconduct. The latest survey included as harassment such items as staring, making comments about your private life or physical appearance, and repeated requests to go on a date.
The response rate for the survey was just 11.6 percent—43,819 self-selected responses from those invited to participate, who were in turn just part of the 1.6 million university students in this country. So, the new report is based on a piddling 2.7 percent of the student population.

Not that the facts or statistics matter two hoots when our media remains determined to sing from the radical feminist songbook.

They carefully shifted the goalposts, highlighting such critical matters as the newly discovered peak sexual assault rates for pansexual students and claiming one in three students experienced sexual assault over their lifetimes—statistics that include incidents of assaults for school children unrelated to any campus crisis.
A student walks past Sydenham Hall on the Western University campus in London, Ont. on Sept. 15, 2021. (The Canadian Press/Nicole Osborne)
A student walks past Sydenham Hall on the Western University campus in London, Ont. on Sept. 15, 2021. The Canadian Press/Nicole Osborne

Additionally, no one bothered to look at official sexual assault rates for this age group.

The Australian Bureau of Statistics Personal Safety Survey shows sexual harassment rates for 18-24-year-olds at 27.3 percent and sexual assault at 3.4 percent—making it very clear that our universities are extremely safe compared to the general community.

Yet the propaganda campaign rolls on. Last month, it was announced that all Australian high school students are to be taught about sexual consent. Mandatory education programs are being rolled out across the country teaching boys not to rape.

It’s mainly due to Sydney schoolgirl activist Chanel Contos who burst into the limelight last year when she announced that a school sex education course had led her to discover she’d been raped two years earlier.

As a 13-year-old she alleges she had been “coerced” to go down on a boy at a party, but it took a Year-10 school sex education course for her to realize what had happened to her.

She started a website encouraging other girls to tell stories of similar sexual assaults and nearly 2,000 obliged. Ever since she’s been out there calling out male misbehaviour and lobbying for school sexual consent courses.

We heard shocking stories of drunk girls waking up to discover males taking advantage of them, boys behaving badly, circulating photos of their mates having sex, etc—some truly unacceptable examples of male behaviour.

When questions started appearing in online comments about why so vulnerable youngsters were attending these alcohol and drug-fueled parties, any suggestion that girls needed to take care of themselves were howled down. There was only one permissible narrative—toxic males and helpless females.

Now sexual consent education will reinforce that message. I’ve just been sent snapshots taken from the brand-new curriculum being introduced in one South Australian school.

It’s fascinating seeing how the educators twist themselves into knots to avoid any hint of victim-blaming. They’ve come up with a new slogan: “Vulnerability is not the same as responsibility.”

Take, for example, this little scenario featuring Kim. Be warned, it’s pretty confusing because we aren’t given the gender of Kim, who uses the pronoun “they.”

Kim is out drinking, and a man “they” knows offers “them” a ride home but instead drives to a secluded spot, parks, and wants to have sex. Our educators spell out the message very clearly: it’s the villain, the driver, who is 100 percent responsible for his actions and whether or not Kim is safe. Kim is simply “vulnerable” as a result of decisions “they” have made to get into this situation.

In this particular scenario, we don’t know the gender of the potential victim, but the bulk of the responsibility/vulnerability examples given in the curriculum involves males taking advantage of girls who arguably signal sexual interest in various ways by wearing low-cut dresses; or inviting a boy to “snuggle” with them in a private room at a party.

Another snapshot shows a classic example, featuring Jen and Luke. Note that it is taken from an American publication called “Men Stopping Rape” —which says it all.
The predominantly female teachers who will be guiding the students’ discussion of these scenes will no doubt work to convince the kids that the boy is inevitably 100 percent responsible while the innocent girl is simply vulnerable.
Demonstrators hold posters outside City Hall in Los Angeles, Calif., on Sept. 28, 2018. (Mark Ralston/AFP via Getty Images)
Demonstrators hold posters outside City Hall in Los Angeles, Calif., on Sept. 28, 2018. Mark Ralston/AFP via Getty Images
The curriculum does include one scenario, Ali and Josh, describing the situation of a girl who has sex because she fears her boyfriend might dump her if she doesn’t. That’s true to life... a very good example of a girl giving consent she may later regret.

The great pity is there is so little in this curriculum about the many reasons girls might be ambivalent about consent. The central myth of the “enthusiastic consent” dogma is the notion that girls know their own minds and clearly indicate their desires.

The truth is, that males are often forced to interpret female sexual ambivalence, obfuscation, and confusion. The apparent “Yeses” that are really should be “Maybes” or plain “Nos.”

Instead of properly addressing these muddy waters, these sexual consent courses work hard to convince young females that they are all potential victims, needing protection from dangerous males and taking us one more step towards creating a divided society.

Views expressed in this article are opinions of the author and do not necessarily reflect the views of The Epoch Times.
Bettina Arndt
Bettina Arndt
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Bettina Arndt is an Australian writer and social commentator on gender issues. She was the country’s first sex therapist and feminist, before focusing on men’s rights. She has authored several books and has written for major newspaper titles, magazines, and has featured regularly on television. She received the Order of Australia in 2020 for her work in promoting gender equity through advocacy for men. Find her online at her blog, BettinaArndt.substack.com.
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