Take Action to Become One With Your Future Self

Our thoughts, behaviors, and choices are shaped not just by our past but also by the vision we have for our future selves. 

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What if the key to achieving your goals goes beyond discipline and motivation to the ability to truly embody your future self? Many of us set ambitious goals for our health or career, only to find ourselves falling back into old patterns.

The most effective way to create lasting change is to fully step into the identity of our future selves today. By seeing ourselves as the person we want to become, we align our present actions with our long-term aspirations.

Sarah, 38, had struggled with weight loss for years until she shifted her focus to everyday thoughts and actions that embodied her future self. First, she imagined a realistic version of what she thought her future self would be doing and how she'd look and feel most of the time. Each morning, she wrote a note to her healthiest future self and used it as a guide for daily choices.

Instead of drastic changes, she made small shifts—drinking more water, cooking at home, and walking daily. Over time, these habits compounded, and within a year, she lost 50 pounds—not by dieting, but by consciously connecting with the person she wanted to and believed she could become.

The Concept of Future Self

We instinctively know the present moment doesn’t stay still. Our future self is inevitable—we age day by day, but the version of ourselves that we become is accumulated from the many decisions we make along the way.

Future self research comes from the concept in positive psychology of “best possible self,” a practice during which people imagine and write about their ideal future selves and ways to achieve those goals. Research shows that this practice increases optimism, happiness, and motivation.

Degree of Connection

Psychologist Hal Hershfield found that our brains often perceive our future selves as separate people, making it easier to prioritize immediate gratification over long-term benefits. This disconnect can contribute to procrastination, unhealthy habits, and impulsive decision-making.

Recent research suggests that strengthening self-continuity—the ability to see our future selves as an extension of who we are today—heightens motivation to act in ways or make choices that benefit one’s future well-being, such as saving for retirement, adopting healthier habits, and investing in personal growth.

Neuroscience research suggests that vividly imagining our future selves activates the same brain regions as thinking about our present selves.

Hershfield’s study at UCLA found that people shown digitally aged images of themselves were more likely to save for retirement. Studies also suggest that a stronger connection to one’s future self increases self-discipline and long-term focus. Research published in the Journal of Experimental Psychology found that people who wrote letters to their future selves exhibited greater self-control and commitment to long-term goals.

A Stanford University study demonstrated that participants who visualized themselves successfully adopting new habits—such as exercising regularly or eating healthily—were significantly more likely to follow through with lifestyle changes than those who set goals without visualization. This could highlight the power of mental imagery in bridging the gap between identity and action.

Psychology professor Gabriele Oettingen’s research emphasizes the importance of mental contrasting—a self-regulation technique that involves visualizing future goals while planning for potential obstacles.

A 2021 meta-analysis showed that mental contrasting moderately improves self-regulated behavior change across various domains, including diet, exercise, and academic performance. Implementation intentions, or planning for obstacles in advance, further enhance the likelihood of success by equipping individuals with strategies to handle challenges.

Focusing on moderate, as opposed to extreme, improvements for one’s future self, as opposed to one’s current self, is what research says can have a more positive effect on how we perceive ourselves along the way to change.

Sarah started with baby steps such as drinking more water, movement, and home-cooked meals, rather than forcing herself to think she should be training for a marathon in three months when she hadn’t been exercising regularly.

How Identity Change Influences Our Behaviors

A key debate in personal development is whether to start with identity or behavior change. Do we become our future selves by thinking differently first or by acting differently first? The answer lies in their dynamic relationship—each influences the other.

Identity Change First

Some psychologists argue that transformation starts with identity. If you see yourself as a healthy, disciplined person, you’ll naturally have habits that align with that identity. This approach involves:

• Visualization: regularly picturing yourself as your future self, engaging in the habits you want to adopt,
• Affirmations and Self-Talk: reinforcing identity-based beliefs, such as “I am a person who prioritizes my health,” and
• Learning From Role Models: observing and emulating people who already live the way you aspire to live.

Behavioral Change 1st

Behavioral psychologists emphasize the power of action. By consistently practicing new habits, identity shifts over time. Instead of waiting to feel like a healthy person, start eating nutritious meals and exercising, reinforcing that identity. This approach includes:

• Habit Stacking: attaching new behaviors to existing habits, such as drinking a glass of water after brushing your teeth,
• Small, Consistent Changes: focusing on gradual improvements instead of overwhelming transformations, and
• Control of Your Environment: making good choices easier by setting up your surroundings—such as keeping workout gear in plain sight.

Actions to Strengthen Future Self

Several strategies can strengthen your connection to your future self:

1. Set 3 Identity-Based Goals

Having too many priorities can dilute your ability to achieve what you can with just a few. Jim Collins, author of the book “Good to Great,” says, “If you have more than three priorities, you have no priorities.” If you focus on three key identity-based goals, such as “live each day as someone who enjoys eating healthy foods and daily movement,” instead of outcome-based goals, such as “lose 20 pounds,” you have a better chance of sticking with your goals.

2. Strengthen the Emotional Connection

Journal, record on an app, or use new artificial intelligence-generated age-progressed images to make your future self feel more tangible. Many studies have considered the practice of writing a letter to your future self, as it can strengthen self-control and enhance the will to persist with goals long-term.

3. Reduce Distractions From Lesser Goals

Time spent on keystone habits can create a ripple effect of similar benefits. Exercise, for example, often leads to better sleep, improved diet, and increased productivity. For little decisions that tempt you throughout the day, practice asking yourself, “What would my future self do?”

4. Track Your Progress

Documenting daily progress and reflecting on alignment with your future self reinforces commitment and adaptability. Your best future self relies on you to embody that self’s identity today. Strengthening your connection to your future self isn’t just a motivational tool—it’s a scientifically backed strategy for lasting change.

Research shows that self-continuity leads to better decision-making, increased self-discipline, and a higher likelihood of success. Whether you start with identity change or behavior change, the key is consistency, self-awareness, and a willingness to step into the person you aspire to be—starting today.

James Clear, the author of “Atomic Habits,” said, “Every action you take is a vote for the type of person you wish to become.”

Habits aren’t just about what we do but about who we believe we are. Cast your vote today.

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