Eating healthy and losing weight seems downright impossible for many people.
Despite their best intentions, they repeatedly find themselves eating large amounts of unhealthy foods, despite knowing that it is causing them harm.
Food addiction is a very serious problem and one of the main reasons some people just can’t control themselves around certain foods, no matter how hard they try.
What Is Food Addiction?
Food addiction is, quite simply, being addicted to junk food in the same way as drug addicts are addicted to drugs.Food addiction is a relatively new (and controversial) term and there are no good statistics available on how common it is.
This is very similar to several other eating disorders, including binge eating disorder, bulimia, compulsive overeating and having an “unhealthy” relationship with food.
The way this works is pretty complicated, but this short video explains it in human terms:
- You frequently get cravings for certain foods, despite feeling full and having just finished a nutritious meal.
- When you give in and start eating a food you were craving, you often find yourself eating much more than you intended to.
- When you eat a food you were craving, you sometimes eat to the point of feeling excessively “stuffed.”
- You often feel guilty after eating particular foods, yet find yourself eating them again soon after.
- You sometimes make excuses in your head about why you should eat something that you are craving.
- You have repeatedly tried to quit eating or setting rules (includes cheat meals/days) about certain foods, but been unsuccessful.
- You often hide your consumption of unhealthy foods from others.
- You feel unable to control your consumption of unhealthy foods, despite knowing that they are causing you physical harm (includes weight gain).
Food Addiction Is a Serious Problem
Although the term “addiction” is often thrown around lightly, having true addiction is serious business.I’m a recovering alcoholic, smoker and drug addict with a history of many rehabs, jail more often than I can count and several trips to the emergency room due to overdose.
After I had been sober for several years, I started to develop an addiction to unhealthy foods.
Full-blown addiction. Nothing more, nothing less.
The symptoms and thought processes are completely identical. It’s just a different substance and the social consequences aren’t as severe.
Food addiction can cause physical harm. It can lead serious diseases like obesity, type 2 diabetes, heart disease, cancer, Alzheimer’s, arthritis and depression, to name a few.
It breaks your self-esteem, makes you unhappy with your body and can make your life a living hell (like it did for me).
A former smoker who has a puff of a cigarette will become addicted again... instantly.
An alcoholic who has a sip of beer will relapse, with all the horrible consequences that follow.
There is no way of getting around it. This is simply how addiction works.
I am personally convinced that food addiction is no different. One bite of cake, one sip of coke, one “cheat” - that’s all it takes.
Most food addicts will never be able to eat junk food like “regular” people again. That’s the cold, hard truth.
But if they manage to avoid the “trigger foods,” then they should be able to eat healthy and lose weight without problems.
The truth is... complete abstinence is the only thing that reliably works against addiction. The sooner you accept that, the sooner you will recover.
Although the “everything in moderation” message may work for some people, this advice is a complete disaster for food addicts.
When it comes to addiction, moderation fails. Every time.
These foods are everywhere and are a major part of our culture.
- Pros might include: I‘ll lose weight, I’ll live longer, I'll have more energy and feel better every day, etc.
- Cons might include: I won’t be able to eat ice cream with my family, no cookies on Christmas, I might have to explain my food choices... (Most of these social dilemmas can be solved easily).
If the answer is a resounding “yes” - then you can rest assured that you are doing the right thing.
Overcoming food addiction is hard enough as it is, by adding hunger and additional restrictions to the mix you will just make things even harder and set yourself up for failure.
Now... set a date, some time in the near future (maybe this weekend or next week).
Relapses are the rule when it comes to addiction, not the exception.
Most people have a history of several failed attempts before they manage to succeed in the long run.
That’s how it was for me and most recovering food addicts I know.
But if you relapse often, then there really is no point in trying to do it on your own again. If you’ve failed a hundred times, then the chances of you succeeding when you try it for the 101th time are almost nonexistent.
Luckily, help is not far off...
There are health professionals and support groups that can help you overcome this serious problem.
You can seek professional help... for example from a psychologist or psychiatrist. Try to find someone who has actual experience in dealing with food addiction.
Just go to their websites, find a meeting (they also have online Skype meetings) and go to it.
Or you can use google to find treatment options in your area. Look for something like “food addiction treatment [name of city]” - chances are that you will find something that suits you.