Americans of every political party, religion, and ethnic background spend countless hours speculating about what has happened to our society. Whether in conversation, on social media, reading articles, or just wondering to ourselves, we can’t avoid the topic of general societal decline in the United States and, if you ask me, the rest of the world. People with different belief systems will identify different problems, of course, but I think we all can agree that there’s something very wrong with people today, especially the younger generation. It’s nothing new for older citizens to complain about “kids these days,” but the difference with this generation is that the young people aren’t being guided by mature, wise elders, especially fathers.
Today’s moment of movie wisdom is from “Andy Hardy Meets Debutante” from 1940. The scene takes place 56 minutes into the 87-minute film. In this movie, the Hardy family has gone to New York City. In this scene, the father, Judge James Hardy (Lewis Stone), takes his son, Andy (Mickey Rooney), to see the Hall of Fame at New York University. The young man is angry because their social standing is keeping him from meeting a prominent debutante, so he bitterly says that the principles of equality on which our nation was founded don’t mean anything anymore. His father is very disappointed by his unpatriotic attitude, telling him so in no uncertain terms.
In the film, an orphanage in the small town of Carvel is in danger of closing because its funding has changed, so Judge Hardy must go to New York City to fight its closure. This is bad news for Andy, who lied to his high school friends that he is practically engaged to debutante Daphne Fowler (Diana Lewis) to explain his collecting her pictures. Now that his family is going to New York, his girlfriend, Polly Benedict (Ann Rutherford), and best friend, Beezy Anderson (George Breakston), challenge him to bring back a picture of himself with Daphne or face public ridicule in the school paper.
In the Big Apple, Andy covers the city with his friend, Betsy Booth (Judy Garland), but he refuses to tell her or anyone else that his mission is to meet Daphne. When he finally gets into her house, her mother (Marjorie Gateson) politely but firmly tells him that there is no reason for him to be her daughter’s friend. This doesn’t stop Andy, but his continued efforts just get him into a mess. In the end, he learns that it’s best to ask for help from your friends and family instead of facing problems alone.
The Scene
After being rejected and humiliated multiple times in his quest to befriend Daphne Fowler, Andy is very bitter about his family’s lowly social standing. He angrily laments to his father, “Why couldn’t we have been somebodies instead of nobodies? Gee, for the first time in my life, I realized that I’m not as good as somebody else.” Judge Hardy has faced many disappointments of his own regarding the orphanage dilemma, so he has little patience for his son’s self-centered crises.He takes him to the Hall of Fame to point out busts of America’s Founding Fathers, whom he calls “some nobodies who turned out to be somebodies.” As they walk past memorials dedicated to Alexander Hamilton, Patrick Henry, Andrew Jackson, and dozens of other champions of liberty, Judge Hardy admits, “I never thought I’d hear you, my own son, deny the very soil you walk on—soil that was earned for you by the blood and tears of men who said that all men in America should be equal.” The disgruntled boy scoffs at this, so his father explains, “Equal in that they shall all have equal opportunity.” He continues, “They left you a heritage of freedom and equality—a heritage you should fight to keep, instead of kicking it around and sniveling about class, money, and social position.”