Cooking Dinner — An Invitation to Showing Affection

Cooking Dinner — An Invitation to Showing Affection
Taking time to cook, and connect with the process can help you relax, and be more present in the moment. Shutterstock
Danae Smith
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As I embark on this journey of finding the sacred, intimate, and tender in daily life tasks and responsibilities, I want to be careful to not make this deeper than it needs to be. This isn’t about “unicorns and glitter”-ing everything but seeking out the beauty in a seemingly mundane aspect of life.

There is a novelty to cooking that’s exciting and exhilarating. It’s one of the reasons I really love cooking. When I got married, it was an aspect of marriage I really looked for to. I still enjoy cooking but I’ll be honest, I was starting to see it more as a chore than an invitation. So, when I decided to embark on this journey of finding the sacred, intimate, and tender in daily life, I wanted to start with cooking dinner.

I realize sometimes the step into finding the more in the mundane is to try something new or see it from a different angle. It had been awhile since I’d tried a new recipe. I like to plan out our meals over the course of a month versus day to day or week by week. When I sat down to plan out August, I pulled out cookbooks I owned and searched for recipes that piqued my interest. I marked them, updated our monthly meal calendar, and hung it on the fridge. I could feel myself getting excited again about a piece of daily life that had become chore-like.

The first recipe I landed on was the Chicken Marsala recipe from Cooking for Two. It’s one of my favorite Italian dishes and I’d never tried making it myself before.

Danae Smith
Danae Smith
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Danae Smith is the founder of This Wondrous Life, a lifestyle blog rooted in pursuing a life lived simply, slowly, and with community. She believes there is more to the mundane than meets the eye. You can also find her on Instagram.
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