For 11-year-old Denise Saldate’s parents, reading labels of products carefully to make sure there was no dairy in it was a normal part of life. However, when her dentist prescribed a new toothpaste to help strengthen the little girl’s tooth enamel, neither her mother nor Denise thought it would be dangerous, much less something that would take her life.
Denise’s parents, Monique Altamirano and Jose Saldate from California, were both veterans when it came to spotting and avoiding products with potential allergens. Both were equipped with EpiPens in case Denise came across something that would send her system into anaphylactic shock.
On April 4, 2019, Denise was taken to a dentist by her mother as she had some spots on her teeth. The youngest of four sisters was prescribed a special toothpaste called MI Paste One, which would help strengthen her tooth enamel.
As Denise was brushing her teeth that evening with her older sister in the bathroom, she had a strong reaction and rushed to her mom’s room.
The specter of an allergic reaction was something that this young girl and her family had to be prepared for as she was diagnosed with milk allergy since she was 1 year old. Nothing, however, could have given the family an idea of how drastically she would react to something as seemingly harmless as toothpaste.
Her dad said, “[I]f I was having a bad day at work, she would know how to make me laugh.”
At Denise’s funeral, her family and friends came forward to talk about how much joy she had brought to their lives. “Multiple kids were saying: ‘She was my best friend; she gave the best advice; she helped me get my grades up; she always wanted me to be happy when I was sad,’” her mother told Allergic Living.
She also reminded parents about the dangers of hidden products that aren’t edible, saying: “Read everything. Don’t get comfortable, just because you’ve been managing for several years.” In all situations, she explains: “You can’t get comfortable or be embarrassed or afraid to ask and ensure that ingredients are OK. Be that advocate for your child.”
“We can’t bring Denise back but we can help others in her name,” Monique told Yahoo!. “Denise wanted to change the world, but it’s heartbreaking how she’s doing it.”