When the family of a North Carolina boy who died of cancer last year visited the child’s gravesite, they found only a plywood slab and mud. The issue was ultimately resolved, but the family spoke to local news outlets to warn others.
“Hindsight says that was the wrong thing to have done,” stated Reverend J.C. Shoaf, the owner of the monument company.
Shoaf said that he and the family had been embroiled in a financial battle for months.
But Shoaf said that the family first ordered a smaller marker, but the next day, they wanted an upgrade. According to WCNC, which saw the invoice, the family still owes Shoaf more than $900 for the upgrade.
The balance was never paid, he said, adding that he’s sent several messages, made phone calls, and sent mail to them.
“You’ve got to pay your bills, and a company can’t keep on giving away markers, giving away markers, and pay your bills and stay in business,” he said.
Shoaf added that he wished he never took the marker away now because the story has since sparked national headlines.
“It’s been torment,” Shoaf told the broadcaster. “We’ve been threatened on the telephone, harassing phone calls.”
“I lost a child too, I know what it is to lose a child,” he added.
Jake made national headlines when NASCAR drivers---including Joey Logano, Matt DiBenedetto, and Ryan Ellis---went to his funeral. The boy reportedly was a fan of the sport.
“He repossessed it, like it was a car,” his mom Crystal Leatherman said Monday, Oct. 16 of the missing grave marker. “This is my lowest point.”
“Disbelief? Anger? I don’t know how to put this into words,” Wayne Leatherman added. “I had a hard time going to the grave anyway, but now there’s a hole there. It’s just wrong.”
Regarding the grave marker upgrade, Wayne Leatherman added that his family was never told about any additional costs by the firm.
Shoaf issued a statement to WBTV about restoring the marker.
“We waive all expenses from the Leatherman family,” he told WBTV.
Woman ‘Pulled’ Into Grave?
A woman who was visiting her parents’ grave in New York sank into the burial plot, a lawsuit claimed.Joanne Cullen bent down to fix a bow on a wreath that was placed on the tombstone when a sinkhole formed under her, according to court documents.
“Getting sucked into your parents’ grave when you go to visit them on a cool December afternoon with the sun going down … it’s terrifying and traumatizing,” the lawyer told the newspaper.